Trying again

[true accidents]

ok, so i recently broke up with a guy.
we were fine in the beginning of our relationship,
we hung out almost everyday, we talk on the phone all of the time, & everything was fine.
but then recently, things just started to change.
we barely talk anymore, we never hung out, & our plans never worked out with each other, & we argued about everything.


so one day we talked, & told him that i thought we should go on a break.
& he agreed, but recently i told him that maybe we should be completely done.
but when we were going on a break, he still acted like we went out & everything.
he'd still try to kiss me by & things like that, but i didn't want to.
i wanted to take a break ! i know that sounds harsh ...

but now that we're completely broken up,
things seem alot different, but not in a bad perspective.
we talk alot more & we still hang out,
almost how we were when we first started dating.


should we try dating again ?
or just stay friends ?

i mean, breaking up didn't affect our friendship & that was what i was worried about.

[Rashella]

If it has already gone wrong there was obviously a reason between you two. If you start dating again, chances are the problems will reoccur, but next time your friendship might not survive it. If your sure it will be different, go for it but imo stay friends.

[sexyvamp16]

what she said

[Dani_x]

If you feel it could work better if you tryed again and learnt from what went wrong before then go for it.
me and my bf broke up few months back and stayed friends and then ended up back to gether and we fine now.
what ever you choose gd luck.

[Sweetest.x.Sin]

Nah, just stay buddies.
If he keeps coming onto you then tell him to fuck off and stop that. If he doesn't stop, then drop him completely, because he's just searching for something and I think you know what that would be!
And you broke up right? So therefore, you break up for a reason, and that's just how I see it.
It never seems to work out when you try a second time.

[Jimbob]

I want to contradict what everyone else has said...

Generally, if things go wrong, the assumption is that if you try again, the same mistakes will happen again, but... if you think the both of you have learnt from what happened previously and you know you can make each other happy, then go for it.

Not everyone is lucky enough to get that chance (myself included). Might be giving up on true happiness.

However, if your asking us, you must have doubts. Nothing should matter but what you two want...