girlz or guys help me pleassssse lol

[~sexy_biatch~]

Heyaz people.
i know a person yeah....lad n we talk quite well and im not sure if he likes me but i reali like him. What should i do?

[Matty]

he's just not that into you. I heard about this book, you should check it out.

[~sexy_biatch~]

wahts the book called

[Shane]

Whats this about a book?

How do you know he don't like her?

[~sexy_biatch~]

yeah good point shane lol

[xxrachxx]

ask him what he thinks to ya

[~sexy_biatch~]

yeh a mite do.
thing is we always talk on msn n i dunt av to make the convos. im reali confused :(

[Shane]

Just ask him, or get real close to him , physically and see what he does!

[~sexy_biatch~]

knowing my luck he would run away!

[Shane]

Is he the shy type?

[Horatia]

How long have you known him? People's opinions on you tend to become more noticable with time... if you've just met him a few days ago, I say give it a week or more.

[MathewS]

ask him if he wants to go see a film or something. I was gona say ask him out for a drink but you underage.

[~sexy_biatch~]

hes not shy....well not very anyway
ive known him for bout 9 10 months
i could ask him....i dunt no lol im so confused :( cos im kinda shy...

[uk-unsigned]

Just do it lol Everyone is shy, i know i am sometimes. The best way to get over it, is to confront it.

[~sexy_biatch~]

thanx. but i dont no how to or how to get in the conversation of it..

[MathewS]

just ask him what hes been up to. and the slip in something like
what are you doing on....? wanna go somewhere?

[uk-unsigned]

Yeah something like that. Tell him theres a film you wanna see, and your mate has let you down. So you have a spare ticket! lol

[~sexy_biatch~]

lol a duno :(
am scared ov him seyin no!!

[uk-unsigned]

If you like him that much you have got to do something about it. Otherwise you will regret it, trust me i've been there lol

[~sexy_biatch~]

yeah i guess.....i stil dunt feel gud though i real need to ask dont i :(

[uk-unsigned]

Yep! go for it

[Horatia]

There's nothing to fear of rejection if you're capable of having periodical friendly conversations with him anyway... it's not an insult, just a statement that he doesn't have any lusty feelings for you, which isn't a bad thing.

[~sexy_biatch~]

i hope it works out......post any advice for me if you have any!!

[timswfc]

just ask him out...nowt 2 loose

[Bob!]

Tbh really, if ur on good terms and talk to each other a lot then thats a start already. If youre friends then he obviously sees some positive points in ya, which is a good thing of course.

Stuff like this is common an everyone has their own diff ways o goin about it, if youre wantin a relationship with him but really dont wanna do it straight out, then start building it.

First test the water by seein how he reacts to you, try an talk an be wi him as much as poss, even good affection from a friend is still affection, be close to im, see im a lot, do things together, what sumone on here suggested about the cinema is a really good idea.

But in friendships such as yours I think theres always a certain level of attractiveness that already exists between each other, positive traits that grab you about that person an are the reason why ya like em, even if it doesent turn out to be more then just friends, the potential still exists.

Anyways If you want to do it by dropping subtle hints like that and test his reactions to them before actin then either way you wont lose.

If it seems he really isnt intrested then youve not lost anythin or destroyed your friendship, but if he does seem to pick up on it and really seems to enjoy bein with ya, and wantin to be with ya again an more then you can take it a bit further an ask, if he doesent ask first lol.

[~sexy_biatch~]

just ask him out...nowt 2 loose
if i ask him out spare of the moment i have something to loose......friendship which has built up over months!!
thanx though:)
n thanx bob for the advice am gunna av to really think about things and the direction im heading and hopefully get the result i want!!

[Mikhael]

lol a duno :(
am scared ov him seyin no!!

Some really smart person once said

"it is better to do somat rather than nothing even if the cost is greater"

in other words do it !!!!

[~sexy_biatch~]

yeah ! i get what everyone is saying....i guess im just chicken!

[Shane]

Just go for it!

I suppose all the members off here could sorta get their names in an email and send that to him on your behalf or something too!!!

Whatever happens, I hope it works out!

[~sexy_biatch~]

thanx i hope it works too.....i might get round to asking him in erm around 10 years time!

[Shane]

Okay, just give me his number and ill ask or go for it yourself! If you never ask then nothing will ever happen! Its that simple!

[~sexy_biatch~]

*cries* *sniffle* :(

[Bob!]

If you really think itl destroy ya friendship then have a think bout it first as u said, no need to really rush.

Though what they all said is correct, if you do nothing at all, nothing will happen. So if ur really unsure about it, do what people said and build it up slowly, givin u the ability to assess ur chances along the way to choose the correct time. if u an the guy are good m8s then uve obviously got some positive traits that he sees in you, which will be amplified if you be with him a lot and affection is built, then he might start seein ya as more then just a friend.

Either way its ur choice, do it straight out or build it up, but one things for sure, do nothin at all an nothin at all will happen, even if you start buildin up to it slowly as ive said, you are progressing.

[Matty]

the book is caleld, "He's just not that into you" lol

[IceBurn3000]

I find that there is a song for almost every situation on earth, and i have some lyrics just for you ~sexy_biatch~.

The song is called I Hope You Dance by Ronan Keating. I will post the whole song, but the lyrics I think are important to you are in bold:



Ronan Keating – I Hope You Dance



I hope you never lose your sense of wonder,
You get your fill to eat but always keep that hunger,
May you never take one single breath for granted,
GOD forbid love ever leave you empty handed,
I hope you still feel small when you stand beside the ocean,
Whenever one door closes I hope one more opens,
Promise me that you'll give faith a fighting chance,
And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance.

I hope you dance....I hope you dance.

I hope you never fear those mountains in the distance,
Never settle for the path of least resistance
Livin' might mean takin' chances but they're worth takin',
Lovin' might be a mistake but it's worth makin',
Don't let some hell bent heart leave you bitter,
When you come close to sellin' out reconsider,
Give the heavens above more than just a passing glance,
And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance.

I hope you dance....

(Time is a wheel in constant motion always rolling us along,
Tell me who wants to look back on their years and wonder where those years have gone.)

I hope you dance.
I hope you dance....

I hope you dance.


I hope you still feel small when you stand beside the ocean,
Whenever one door closes I hope one more opens,
Promise me that you'll give faith a fighting chance,
And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance.

Dance....I hope you dance.
I hope you dance....I hope you dance.
I hope you dance....I hope you dance..
(Time is a wheel in constant motion always rolling us along
Tell me who wants to look back on their years and wonder where those years have gone
________

This song can be used as a metaphor for loving someone (as opposed to dancing). Instead of sitting on you butt, when you get the choice to sit it out or love. I hope you love.

I hope this helped. If you need to talk to someone about this privately, add me to MSN or PM me.

Peaceout,

[~sexy_biatch~]

the book is caleld, "He's just not that into you" lol
thats reali reasuring *cries* lol
nd wow the lyrics!! like 1 o them songs u wonna cry to...

[Mikhael]

get a m8 to ask him if he would go out wit u but not actully ask him out by doin this ull no if he will except or reject that is my advice

[~sexy_biatch~]

yeah i no wot u mean....like ask a mate to go through loadza names with him if he would or wouldnt n get the idea that way.
thats a good idea that thanks :D

[Mikhael]

get a m8 to ask him if he would go out wit u but not actully ask him out by doin this ull no if he will except or reject that is my advice .

[timswfc]

ask him out...if he ses no mek out u was drunk!

[~sexy_biatch~]

ask him out...if he ses no mek out u was drunk!
this would be difficult.....as it takes a lot for me to get drunk!!

[timswfc]

so u dnt really hav 2 get drunk!

mek out uve bin 2 a party or sumet!

[~sexy_biatch~]

ooook i mite try it!

[timswfc]

yeh u gota or mek out ure stoned! thats if he ses no! if he ses yes u defo arnt drunk!

[~sexy_biatch~]

lol i fink if im a bit tipsy an stoned it would be more believable n if he says ye then automatically stop :P

[~*~ shefbabe ~*~]

my best advice is to just try and get to know the guy as a mate then take things from there

[MathewS]

omg, you should just ask him how he feels about you, or ask a mate to ask him. trust me if you dont do anything now you WILL regret it. i should know ive been there.

[timswfc]

yeh u need 2 do sumet nah..ask him out n pretend 2 b pissed or get a mate 2 ask him what he feels about you like mat sed

[~sexy_biatch~]

ok... al du it wen a come off holiday

[MathewS]

dont act pissed/stoned other wise it will look like you are just messing around.

[~sexy_biatch~]

good point ...

[MathewS]

ive got the most experience ;) lol

[timswfc]

no just say wot u hav 2 say....then if he does say no mek out u wer pissed 2 save ure friendship

[~sexy_biatch~]

is that a good thing?!

[~sexy_biatch~]

ur all seyin different things :'(

[MathewS]

if he says no then say that you where only interestied in how he feels.

[timswfc]

lol is what a good thing? well matthew is the big headed prick whos apparently a hit wiv the ladies tek his advice

[MathewS]

i wouldnt say a big hit, but i know from experience how these things can play out.

And if you dont call pulling 5 ladies at once a big hit then i pity you. :p

[~sexy_biatch~]

i sed is the experience a good thing. big headed :O tut lol

[~sexy_biatch~]

or you may be call a player...

[MathewS]

*cough* big headed maybe.
But, just ask him if he is up for doing anything e.g cinema, walk ect. Then while your with him ask how he would feel if you took your friendship further than it is.

[timswfc]

o yeh corse ya pulled 5 ladies at a time...i dnt like u being big headed son...btw! grimsby town 1 - 2 sheffield wednesday

ha ha tek that...u shud learn that ladies hate big headed ppl u fool

[MathewS]

er, if you dont believe me then ring up my mates that where with me at the time, i can give you there mobile numbers if you want.

And i dont care for football, ill only have a game with a few mates.

[timswfc]

yeh corse...sore loser ppl

y wud i want ure m8s numbers...if u give it me....it will b an excuse 4 them 2 claim they hav "pulled".

"pulling" isnt givin ure number out on the net 2 5 people at once son

[~sexy_biatch~]

poor lasses as if! dont u no lasses dunt like bein played..

[timswfc]

yeh u hear that....u dnt hav a clue wot lasses want...unlcuky 4 u son...u wnt never find out wot love is wiv that attitude!

[MathewS]

yeah, i do know what it means. lol. And just so you know, we where out at a club. When this happened and as your a bit young you might not know that this does tend to happen.

[MathewS]

And obviously you do coz your only 16.......
Your all kids you dont know anything yet.........

[timswfc]

that what tends 2 happen? well y brag about it then if its always happening!? so ya aint that special after all...if only u wer as modest as ure gd friend djdanny

[~sexy_biatch~]

danny is mint! n not thinkin hes ace....

[timswfc]

yeh n its got kaye here biggin him up n saying nice things about him...learn from this please...

[MathewS]

i aint saying it happens all the time, i was a bit lucky that night.
Danny is a little shy when it comes to these things ;) which is ok, since it doesnt mean you cant have fun. sometimes it means you have more fun, lol.

[MathewS]

I never said danny wasnt mint, i have known him for a while now, since i did go to school with his sister when i was younger.

[timswfc]

i bet u hit on his sister!

well kaye reckons dannys approach is better than ures matt n i agree wiv her...learn from him....yeh u got lucky that there wer a loada desperate slutty mingers in the club that night!

[~sexy_biatch~]

i chatted to him n he seems to hav good idea about life n lasses n how he wants things. hes shy yeah but cute!

[MathewS]

Where did that come from, timswfc? lol
im too shy to just walk up to someone and start hiting on them

Im only trying to offer some advice no need to take it personal.

[timswfc]

lol just tryin 2 get u 2 stop ure player attitude n grow up! im just tryin 2 help ya men sen...i may b younger...but still!!!

n stop bin big headed plz ull get no where being like that ;)

[~sexy_biatch~]

yay we calmed down now boyz?
lets get back to me....:P

[MathewS]

have you spoken to him yet?

[~sexy_biatch~]

no av i eck!

[timswfc]

chick chick chick chick chiken, lay a lil egg 4 me :P ask im out u got nowt 2 loose

[Shane]

Yeah, get him asked!!! You need to get in there while you have a chance! How hurt would you be if he started seeing your best mate now??

[timswfc]

yeh gd point shane i actually herd hes interested in ya best mate so get him asked!

[~sexy_biatch~]

shh u lot lol. he mite not no my best m8. an my best m8 mite av a bf :P which she doeeeeeees

[timswfc]

she mite want 2 bfs...ya never know!

uve gone of this guy now anyway ant ya u want rickster

[~sexy_biatch~]

yeh sure ^o) *sacastic*

[MathewS]

she might dump her current boyfirned and go for this other guy. Ive seen it done before.

[timswfc]

yeh true...honestly that wud kill u! dnt let it happen n ask this lad out!

[~sexy_biatch~]

she doesnt like the lad i like..
n like i sid b4 im 2 chicken!!

[timswfc]

o yeh shes probs fuckin him behind ure bk! she will just b sayin it! i bet his cock is in her mouth as we speak!

quick ask him out b4 he gets 2 attached 2 her!

[MathewS]

true if you are really afraid to ask him out you will surely not get around to it and if you ever do he might already have a gf, so you would be just end up being really pissed off, so just ask him, or give one of the guys on this forum his number so that they can ask him for you..

[~sexy_biatch~]

Tim stop seyin tht lol she even wonts me to get wi im.....
n i duno if im guna ask im yet. al think bout it wen a cum off ols

[Bob!]

if you do nothing at all, u will get nothing.

Look at it this way ya?
Move 2 magnets close enuf to each other, what happens.

[MathewS]

they repel each other?

[xXxI.Got.Them.Emo.EyesxXx]

Haha...flip one over so the south pole is alligned to the north pole...THEN bam.

They stick.

[MathewS]

ahhh, but bob didnt say that.

[xXxI.Got.Them.Emo.EyesxXx]

Details, details, details.

Psh.

:P

[Bob!]

I expected sumone comin up with the repellin fact, as i knew sumone would, so i left ya to it :P

what the rest o em know is i obviously wont on about that, the example wa meant to show that if they have the right qualities (opposite poles in the magnet example) and are meant to be, then once theyre near enough to each other theyre attractiveness will draw them closer and closer untill theyre together as one. Like the magnets, just to get that uve gotta get off yer ass an move em near enough lol :rolleyes:

[timswfc]

i can hear ure best m8 screaming in his bedroom...ask him out quick!

[Bob!]

...............

[timswfc]

ask her out quick!

[MathewS]

ask her out quick!

ask her? has he had a sex change now?

[~sexy_biatch~]

hes male :| tut tim!!

[timswfc]

yeh i thought u was lez :S

[JakSmit]

Its better to talk to someone in person than over MSN I've found.
Talk to him face to face and look into his eyes, then you'll see...

[sstokes]

I had the same problem a about 2 months ago. I asked my friends the exact same question, they said why don't you ask him so I did. We have been going out now for a month. Things so far I would think are going good. Be open, wear your heart on your sleeve, sometimes it might come back crushed but other times it will come back red and pupping. Take a chance. If he doesn't, there are more guys for you, wait for them to come along.

[Entice]

Maybe just ask if he wants to watch a movie, with a group of friends.
If hes comfortable with that, then u can take the next step.
Whatever that may be.

[*+*BeCcI*+*]

have u got his number kaye? coz y dont u txt him n that n ring him ... jst say so who u likein atm? n then jst say u like sm1 who he noes hes really fit n shit like that ... it always works :D lol xx

[~sexy_biatch~]

wel ive got so far. goin to a party tmo n hes guna b ther i fink! wish me luck!

[timswfc]

good luck! go n get him!

[~sexy_biatch~]

fanku! not sure wen im goin yet tho!

[~sexy_biatch~]

well i went on friday!
wo ok dint get to say wot i wanted to tho

[*+*BeCcI*+*]

:( get in there! get it sed! lol

[~sexy_biatch~]

lol bec al tell ya bout it wen a c ya cos u dunt no story du ya :P

[*+*BeCcI*+*]

i dunt :( lol hehe!! u will tell me wen u c me! WHICH WILL B THIS WEEK!! :D lol sowwi had 2 b added :P hehe

[*+*BeCcI*+*]

ma sigs abit big :P hehe

[~sexy_biatch~]

ya sigs mint babe!
n yeh gunna c ya this week 4 deffo :D

[*+*BeCcI*+*]

fanku! :D n YAY!!!! hehehe!! will b funnn!!!!!!!!!!!!! :P hehe XxX

[~sexy_biatch~]

yeh u shud come meet these 2 ladz i no in scawthorpe tho 1 o em is proppa fit :P

[*+*BeCcI*+*]

kewl!!! we will do if u wanna where u no em frm? do they live near ya nanna??

[~sexy_biatch~]

liv nr u! n i txt em sumtimes. newayz al tell ya wen a cya cos this topic is ment to b bout me wiv anuva lad tehe

[*+*BeCcI*+*]

lol well it is bout u wid a nuva lad .. jst a diff lad 2 the 1 u started off on :O kaye! lol jkin :P

[~sexy_biatch~]

oi a sound like a bloody shlag eya!

[*+*BeCcI*+*]

*slag u mean lol :P naaa u dont lol hehe

[~sexy_biatch~]

nar bec its shlag it sounds betta. jus like sayin yesh! n biatch

[*+*BeCcI*+*]

orite then kaye w.e u say hun :P jkin lol hehe ... rite movin back onto the subject now :P lol

[~sexy_biatch~]

becccccccccccccccccccccccccci :( sorri a bit random

[Mikhael]

ohbtw have u asked him out yet ???

[Mudge = Myth]

becci...u luk right fit in that picture darling

[~sexy_biatch~]

no i havent, and yeh becci is fit eint ya hunni

[Pearson]

slip him sum sleepin drugs, the kidknapp him

[timswfc]

yeh do a date rape

[*fender.chiq*]

Lmao tim, I thought that but decided not to say anything :P

[timswfc]

lmaorofllolpmsllmaorofllol

yeh great minds finks alike!

[*fender.chiq*]

*grins*

Aye..

[kattylover]

Is there such a book? Haha!
Anyway, currently, Im having the same trouble. I met this guy and we get along really well. But I don't know whether he really likes me because I like him. I don't want to ask him though. Im shy. Haha...

[~sexy_biatch~]

yeah its awful in these kinda situations, you dont want to make a move just in case its not right! *sighs*
and erm...whos date raping who? lol

[LukeEv_17]

i think you know lol

[~sexy_biatch~]

nope i dont *blinks*

[Stormydayz]

Heyaz people.
i know a person yeah....lad n we talk quite well and im not sure if he likes me but i reali like him. What should i do?

Well, hunz you r gonna have to be more specific.

[~sexy_biatch~]

I dont like him no more...well kinda do. hes moved away to uni! :(
Liking someone else now though, im in the same situation but kinda better than before!

[Entice]

Lol, life just gets so complicated sometimes =P

[~sexy_biatch~]

yes, indeed it does!
why cant you have a skript for life!!
like a book....
instead of making things very complicated :(

[Entice]

Cause its amusing?
Lol, cause thats the joy of life.

[~sexy_biatch~]

yeah. i do admit i lieka challenge....my life is full of to many challenges though!

[Entice]

I dont have enough. Well recently like on Tuesday i climbed to the highest point in Aus.
And that took a lot out of me.

[Sponge'K'nob]

FUCK ME! that was ageees ago. and i wrote terrible!
sorry just was searchin through moved threads..