I can't tell her how i feel...

[destiny's_angel]

Ok, i've just come out of my sexuality. i can confirm that i'm bisexual. i know i'm only fifteen and still exploring sexuality but if this is a crush then that means i'm bi.

anyway, my problem is this. I really have feelings for this girl call her "steph" at school. she hangs around with a different group of people known as the popular group, whereas i hang around with the clever groups. everytime i see her my heart jumps and i don't know what to do. i get so nervous when i see her, but she doesn't even know me and talk to me. i know she's straight and i doubt that she'll even talk to me as a friend. ok, we don't have to be like couples cos that'll never happen, i just want to be her friend first and see how it goes. if i start talking to her, she'll probably wondering why i suddenly want to talk to her cos me and her are different. i know i won't fit in with her friends anyway. i can't talk to my friends about my feelings cos they don't know i'm bi yet. they might start spreading my problems around school, might get bullied or something and if i tell them how i feel about steph, she'll find out? i want this feeling to go away but how? move school cos of this girl? what if i tell a teacher? do you think that they'll talk to steph about my problem? i really don't want her to know. i know i need hypnotherapy? i just want to be her friend. any advice?

thanks

[Sweetest.x.Sin]

Well, I do agree with the decision you've made to not tell your friends or go around telling everybody about this, and yeah she would probably start wondering if you wanted to talk to her out of the blue.
I know being bi is difficult but it's okay, don't be ashamed because alot of other people are too and if you're looking for another chick to get involved with try not getting involved with those snobby preppy ones.
Just ignore your feelings and avoid Steph, because she's in the popular group and that usually means she's a prep, which usually means they're all bitches.
And you, you're in the smart group. You should be smart enough to know not to pursue her.
:P

[destiny's_angel]

a lot of people i hear say she's down to earth and friendly but i don't know how to react when i'm around her. ok, it's easy to say she's friendly and downto earth but what if i say the wrong thing, she'll think i'm wierd.

[Rashella]

I would advise you not to do this.
Theres nothing wrong with being bi, honestly, its just at your age, school kids can be very cruel. They will torment you for the smallest thing and sadly are very narrow minded. .

I would wait untill you find someone you can be sure feels the same way, itl be worth it =)

And as Sweetest Sin said, preppys are usually bitchy.

[destiny's_angel]

well, she's not really a preppy, a preppy is when you're brought up in a rich family kinda like the royal family for example and dress appropriately. her family and her friends family are working class families like ours. i don't think she's snobby either cos i know she talks to everyone but happens to hang around with different groups of people that's all. the difference between me and her is that she's more popular than i am and that's why i don't really talk to her that much. i think that's what's bothering me, it's the fact we are so different and hang around with different people.