HATE them Hate them

[Angel101]

is it just a phase or do more chicks feel like this. when you dicover that all guys that you meet and are/were interested in you are utter assholes???? they just begin to tell you all kindsa shit to mess with your head and then treat you like crap and ignore you.


Why the hell do you guys do that??

[Mikhael]

Cause we'r men :D just kidding you get assholes like that that are just in relationships for the glory of having "dun" another person . But there is a Good guy who comes along every now and again looking for a realationship that lasts more than a week

[Bob!]

is it just a phase or do more chicks feel like this. when you dicover that all guys that you meet and are/were interested in you are utter assholes???? they just begin to tell you all kindsa shit to mess with your head and then treat you like crap and ignore you.


Why the hell do you guys do that??

Same reason as you girls do that to us.

Though personally never been like that to anyone myself, and I sympathise with ya situation, but don't go and do the whole "all men are wankers" thing cause tbh it pisses me off, its not right on the ones who have not done that, but had exactly the same fucking thing from the very lasses that complain about "all blokes" doin it.

All I can advise is next time try and be a lil more sure the person ya goin for has the correct qualities for ya, and don't go thunderin about every single bloke on the planet, we get exactly the same treatment.

The problem is with the people, not the gender.

[Leon]

don't go and do the whole "all men are wankers" thing cause tbh it pisses me off, its not right on the ones who have not done that, but had exactly the same fucking thing from the very lasses that complain about "all blokes" doin it.

The problem is with the people, not the gender.

That pisses me off too, we aren't gonna turn round and say it's your fault because your a woman are we

I agree with Bob, the problem is the person, regardless of gender, there are people like that in both genders!

[Bob!]

Its just an extra thump in the gut tbh, not only do half of us equally get shit on by you lasses, but we also get the blame for what the rest of the assholes do!

So aye just recognise that at least, some of us are in the same plight.

Hopefully that will open ya eyes to the people that definately won't treat ya that way due to having received the same themselves, "do unto others as you would have them do unto you" ya?.

[tf_arl_90]

Same reason as you girls do that to us.

Though personally never been like that to anyone myself, and I sympathise with ya situation, but don't go and do the whole "all men are wankers" thing cause tbh it pisses me off, its not right on the ones who have not done that, but had exactly the same fucking thing from the very lasses that complain about "all blokes" doin it.

All I can advise is next time try and be a lil more sure the person ya goin for has the correct qualities for ya, and don't go thunderin about every single bloke on the planet, we get exactly the same treatment.

The problem is with the people, not the gender.

Agreed.

While I understand how easy it is to say, "guys suck!" when you're frustrated with guys in your life, it's really unfair and a lot of people get put off by it. You're not improving your chances of having a nice guy notice you when he's under the impression that you are fed up with males.

However, if you are only referring to the assholes, then yes, I agree. Assholes who happen to be guys do indeed suck.

I hope you have better luck in your future relationships.

Oh, and yeah, lots of chicks feel like this every once in a while. If I ever start babbling about how awful guys are, Bob(!) has permission to punch me in the face.

[Bob!]

Rofl nah, I'll just tie ya to the roof by ya feet n let ya hang until ya declare love. :P

But aye, its very easy to go blaming a whole gender and so on, especially in time so hurt and fustration and when its all you've ever received from em, and each gender does have certain traits that are shared by the majority, BUT remember that in the end it really aint the whole gender's fault, focus ya rage on the one/whichever asshole has done that to ya, and not everyone else around ya.

Sure sometimes ya need a bit of a private rant about how ya hate em all and so on but just remember that if ya in the company of others, especially people of that gender who have done bugger all wrong to ya and might have received the same theirselves, it aint nice.

So aye fume all ya want and let off some steam to yaself but just remember sometimes it can hurt/annoy the people who have done nothin wrong, and tbh theyre the ones ya should be embracing, realise that there ARE people who would not want to see ya like that, and haven't ever done anythin to ya themselves, and then hopefully that should open ya eyes to the good/innocent people who actually exist.

Focus ya anger on the ones who actually HAVE caused bad on you, not absolutely everyone in the vicinity, and that will get ya understanding from others, and maybe ones of the same gender, you'll have a lot easier time finding someone who is worth it then rather than someone who is not, because as I said, some of those people just would never think of treatin ya as others may have, due to them knowing they would not like it being done to them.

[Pearson]

Go looking for a nice man, you'l find a nice man - go looking for a pretty face, you'l find a pretty face....might not be a nice man though, I agree with Bob, dont like it when lasses say this....there are loads of top blokes out there but lasses seem to want to go out with nob heads...

[Angel101]

okay ya. you guys do have a point. and i hate it when my friends friend does that to guys. she really knows how to mess with them. its not the whole entires gender - you right. but howcome you come across so many asses at once? National Asshole day? its not like i am out there looking for them. but as soon as they (some guys) know that they got you, they drop you so fast.

Not ALL guys suck. but still...its not cool that chicks get hurt and ya..... its not right that guys get hurt. But guys dont break into tears when a love song comes on.(cos it reminds them of that "special" person) or do they? and they dont go teary eyed when they realised that she has moved on and he is still stuck on her?

[Bob!]

*Stand up tall and says in macho voice:

Of course we don't, we're Men, we don't have feelings, what do ya think we are?







Human?...

[tf_arl_90]

okay ya. you guys do have a point. and i hate it when my friends friend does that to guys. she really knows how to mess with them. its not the whole entires gender - you right. but howcome you come across so many asses at once? National Asshole day? its not like i am out there looking for them. but as soon as they (some guys) know that they got you, they drop you so fast.

Not ALL guys suck. but still...its not cool that chicks get hurt and ya..... its not right that guys get hurt. But guys dont break into tears when a love song comes on.(cos it reminds them of that "special" person) or do they? and they dont go teary eyed when they realised that she has moved on and he is still stuck on her?

It sounds like you're meeting the wrong people then! :( Unfortunately the world is filled with assholes and jerks, so I'm not surprised you've run into a few.

As to the guys crying bit, some do but probably don't admit it. I would say in general, guys don't cry as often as chicks do. *shrug*

[Bob!]

Probably not as often no but some of you lasses cry at the silliest things anyways :P

As to that situation well tbh we blokes are just as soft as you lasses on the inside, just this is normally hidden and guarded due to most prefering to maintain the natural "outer shell" of the general Male, (not the "macho" asshole type) this stature is maintained by His strength, willpower and honor, (I prefer that word rather than "pride")

Therefore since when in love we allow the special person access to our "softer insides," its there where you women strike, and strike the hardest, achieving exactly the same effect. (Blokes who either a. don't view ya as special enough, or b. get around a lot and do not care probably do not suffer as adverse affects due to not allowing ya as far "in" to hit where we hurt the most, our hearts)

Because of the decline in the features mentioned above, its difficult to maintain that stature after such a blow, sometimes it can be kept up to some standard around others just in an attempt to preserve what scraps of that are left, but especially when alone, that easilly crumbles.

I have seen many a "strong" Man be reduced to rubble due to the work of a Female, even some Guys you would totally not expect.

We're initially made of the same stuff after all.

[tf_arl_90]

Probably not as often no but some of you lasses cry at the silliest things anyways :P
Yes. Some of us do :P


As to that situation well, tbh we blokes are just as soft as you lasses on the inside, just this is normally hidden due to most prefering to maintain the natural "outer shell" of the general Male, this stature is maintained by his strength, willpower and honor, (I prefer that word rather than "pride")

Therefore since when in love we allow the special person access to our "softer insides," its there where you women strike, and strike the hardest, achieving exactly the same effect. (Blokes who either a. don't view ya as special enough, or b. get around a lot and do not care probably do not suffer as adverse affects due to not allowing ya as far "in" to hit where we hurt the most, our hearts)

Because of the decline in the features mentioned above, its difficult to maintain that stature after such a blow, sometimes it can be kept up to some standard around others just in an attempt to preserve what scraps of that are left, but especially when alone, that easilly crumbles.

I have seen many a "strong" Man be reduced to rubble due to the work of a Female, even some Guys you would totally not expect.

We're initially made of the same stuff after all.

Agreed. I've only ever seen one of my guy friends cry in front of me. It wasn't about anything sad, he just got emotional. It was kinda of nice, because it showed he really trusted me, and that even he had a sweet and sensitive side inside that hard outer shell.

[Bob!]

Just like the phrase Danny said with the reflection of the moon not revealing how deep the lake is aye?

Remember that if a man does allow ya access to his softer (and theras more vulnerable) side, he's trusting you with a lot, and I mean a LOT, there will be very few people (if any) that he'd allow that priveledge to.

Tis a sad thing to see a mighty structure of a Man be completely destroyed and reduced to rubble due to him allowing someone beyond his guard, and all due to wanting to give love to that person he trusted.

But aye I know its the same for girls as well, just its generally more visible and ya can gain comfort easier.

[WynnItAll]

True, some guys are just awful. However, some aren't. *Give a shout out to all guys not asses!*

Try to meet other guys, and see for yourself that there are others. Don't worry too much about them now, you'll meet your man. And he wont be an ass.

[tf_arl_90]

*Give a shout out to all guys not asses!*

They are so wonderful :i heart u

[Bob!]

Yet miss/lose out the most. :P

So aye basically, stop letting the wankers win and actually goin out with em, try and look beyond simple primary attraction, specially if the guy is obviously an absolute tosspot, (yet still probably ends up pullin the lass anyways, to dump her a few days after)

[Angel101]

but thats the thing. i dont even go for those types of guys. (guys that kow their hot), i think their egos are to huge and are utter wankers.

[Innamorata]

Callum's not like that....if he is, I kick him in the head.