Hurts my girlfriend

[Guestone]

Hey all
recently, i was alone in my house with my girlfriend, and the inevitable happened...

But when i actually pushed my penis into her, she said it was incredible painfull, so i pulled out. 5 minutes later, we tried again, but the same happened. I have told her that there is no pressure on her because our relationship doesnt revolve around sex and i can go without it, but she said that it is fine and that we should keep trying because eventually, it wont hirt her adn she can enjoy it.
Does anyone have any tips on how i can make it less painfull for her?
thanks

[HaLeE]

I dont think that there would be any way to make it less painful for her.
♥

[Bob!]

Can't say from personal experiece but all I can think of is try a lotta foreplay to make sure ya both fully aroused and she is "wet", use lube if need be to help with this, and go slow.

She'll probably get used to it if ya try it a few times, but its good ya not puttin pressure on her, keep it that way.

[Jimbob]

Go really slowly, don't rush, just slide it in nice and gently. A little bit at a time and get her to tell you as soon as it hurts, so you can learn how far you can take it in and slowly try and take it a little bit further. The problem may simply be down to her age if she's a little young.

[kristina_39]

yeah hun its called foreplay... tease her.. play with her.. then try to push in like jimbob said.. if she is a virgin its gonna hurt the first time... just take it easy... she get used to it and then it will be enjoyable for the both of you.. have fun :)

[pinkunicorn123]

Was there any foreplay involved? or did you just get straight down to business?
The more the foreplay the more she will become 'lubricated' and 'open up a little more'.
The first time is always difficult because the hymen has to be broken and this is a painful process (and often results in a little blood, so if this happens, don't worry).
The only thing i could suggest is making sure she is very turned on, this helps wih the process, after that, once you have broken her hymen, she will begin to find it more pleasureable, but there isnt much that can be done to easy the pain im afraid.

[bluedancingdog]

finger her a lot it could help

[sharpedgedpen]

Lube should be your best friend:P

[Shane]

How old is she? She may just not be physically ready for that type of activity yet.

[Innamorata]

It's always painful for me at the beginning, the joys of being petite. Lube ftw. Foreplay is good too.