Ummm...first time

[sspxgirl]

ok ya well ma man asked me if I would give it up to him and I said no I'm not sure if I'm ready he's fine,has style,funny,clever all those thangs but ya I don't know what to do

[EceYenii]

Ur onlyy 14..dnt rushh it..stick with touching,kissing,,etc. at least wait till ur 15..cz even tho giving up ur virginity is tempting..it might not mke uu feel soo gud..aftr.

[Leon]

Have a look at this thread
http://www.teenageforums.com/forums/showthread.php?t=3446&highlight=Special

See if it helps. Also there are lots of other threads in the advice section that are very similar to yours, have a look what opinions are given on there and see what you think.

[Bob!]

I said no I'm not sure if I'm ready

You've said it all there.

As others have stated there is no rush, and also like Leon said, have a look around at the general opinions and so on. :)

Either ways make sure he doesen't pressure you, at you're age a lotta guys probably just want it to get rep.