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iaxa
February 20th '07, 06:55 AM
hey guys i dont post in the advice forum much but i really need helps. :S
there is this girl that liked me and we started talking over msn and at school for the pst two years. after a while i started to like her and after i while she thought of me more as a friend. i have tried to get into a more serouis realation ship with her but so far no luck. really it has gone the other way.
now i dont no what to do should i just leave her or should i try it again but i dunno get in her bad books any more.
Innamorata
February 20th '07, 06:58 AM
I think you should back off a bit for a while, you don't want to make her like you just as a friend but you don't want to piss her off as well. Just play it cool, and if you feel brave enough, maybe talk to her about how you're feeling. Tell her that you like her, but you don't want to spoil the relationship if she doesn't like you in the same way. It's better to be just friends with her, then end up not talking to her at all if you fall out over it.
Jimbob
February 20th '07, 11:40 AM
I was once in a similar situation with a girl that I know. We were a little close, I wanted to give her more, but she thought if we did, that it would spoil what we already had. I mean, I loved her to bits as a friend, I'd have done pretty much anything for her, still would.
Try telling the truth... tell her that you trully care and you will care however close you can be to her, but explain that sometimes you just find yourself wishing you could give her more. Tell her you don't want to spoil things, just gently let her know how you feel.
jem
February 21st '07, 02:53 PM
would give u more advice but i think innamorata and jimbob have said it all.
listen to them =]
iaxa
February 26th '07, 06:00 AM
:P to late anyway she is going out with sum1 else.
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