Is he going to split up with me?

[x---abi]

ok i havent been going out with my boyfriend long and i think hes going to split up with me...
aparently its because i dont meet up with him enough which is true. But i only dont meet up with him because all we do is have sex and sometimes i'd rather just be in his company.
all my friends say hes not good enough for me but i really like him and i cant really explain it but i really just want are relationship to be perfect.

i dont know how to explain it to him because he turns it all around so im in the wrong

please give me some advice on what to say to him.

x

[Innamorata]

He doesn't sound worth it to be honest, talk to him about the fact that all you do is have sex and suggest doing some other stuff. If he has a brain, he should be happy to do stuff with you. If not, he really isn't worth it. Him turning your words around really isn't good either, he doesn't sound like a nice guy to me.

[Leon]

Have a chat with him and tell him that you don't just want sex when you see him, you would rather just have the company sometimes, see what he thinks. If he doesn't see your point then he's being a bit selfish and not listening to what you would like from the relationship.
And say that if that happens you will go and see him more and then you can work on your relationship together.If you like him that's the main thing, even if your friends don't think he's right for you.
Hope that helps

[eltajo22]

I kind of had the same situation with my previous girlfriend. She did not have the time for me and I still thought she was amazing. When we hung out all we did was make out and stuff. Then I realized thats all our relationship was. So we tried to go a few days with minimal sexual stuff and it didn't work out. We both realized that we were both in it for the wrong reasons. We broke up but are still friends. So have a talk with him and try going a week with out sex and then see how that works out. If you don't have time for a relationship I dont think you should be in one unless you both are okay with not seeing eachother for a few days at a time