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*fender.chiq*
October 23rd '05, 06:36 PM
Is it 'right'?

People get hurt by innocent flirting - one person adores the other, whilst the other is just playing along for fun.

Is it worth risking it?

What happens if the other person thinks the person in question likes them when they don't really?

It's all down to flirting.

Yeah, it can be fun, but people get hurt by it.

So is it right?

Duroxis
October 23rd '05, 06:45 PM
Depends in which context I suppose, can be right in some situations whereas others it could be totally wrong

*låð¥*
October 23rd '05, 07:25 PM
im not kiddin, flirtin is bloody hard work! :P cos when u flirt u gotta make sure u say the rights things, act normally n basically makin sure u dont make a prat of ureself!

i think it depends on the situation, flirtin for only fun is harmless, but if ure flirting with someone u like o then u hav to be careful

Mamfy
October 23rd '05, 08:14 PM
Yeah. I think you gotta be careful. Some people might think you're leading them on or some people might take it as just a little game.

Depends on the person and the situation I guess

~sexy_biatch~
October 23rd '05, 09:13 PM
depends how deep the flirting is.

bambizzle
October 23rd '05, 09:22 PM
flirtings all well and good, as long as you know who exactly your flirting with

Mamfy
October 23rd '05, 09:22 PM
Lol and you know exactly what you and the other person want out of it

~sexy_biatch~
October 23rd '05, 09:23 PM
most people know how to frilt to manipulate people aswel. some people are good at it, and then puting people down, quite clever actually

bambizzle
October 23rd '05, 09:26 PM
people have done that to me before. leaves you very confused

Mamfy
October 23rd '05, 09:28 PM
Yeah you don't know what their intentions were!

~sexy_biatch~
October 23rd '05, 09:30 PM
i think its funny.

bambizzle
October 23rd '05, 09:30 PM
the worst is when they start flirting with you and end up going for your mate

Mamfy
October 23rd '05, 09:31 PM
Aw lol that's harsh

claire
October 24th '05, 12:13 AM
the worst is when they start flirting with you and end up going for your mate

lol thts happened to me !

The Wheel
October 24th '05, 12:44 AM
depends how deep the flirting is.
I agree

Captain Sage
October 25th '05, 10:08 PM
Is flirting right?

Oh ho ho, you have to be joking me good sir.

BleedBlack
October 26th '05, 06:07 AM
As long as it's not with someone else's boyfriend!!!

I think it's pretty harmless. Alot of people do it unintenionally too.

*fender.chiq*
October 27th '05, 12:31 AM
I think it's body language aswell, and that can be completely unintentional!

~sexy_biatch~
October 27th '05, 09:10 AM
Yeah....especially if you have been drinking

Conal
October 27th '05, 10:07 AM
How do you flirt? Its too hard for me:(

Mamfy
October 27th '05, 10:31 AM
You can't really describe how you do it. I guess it jus thappens when you like a person.

There is subtle flirting by subtley dropping little hints that you might like them and then theres outright flirting where they just say stuff out right. SO it's completely obvious what they want.

danster73
October 27th '05, 02:14 PM
i agree with mamfy's first post, flirting is ok but to a certain extent. You have to be careful not to cross the line. When you do things tend to get messed up. My friend did that once and she regretted it. But harmless fun is ok aslong as the person knows its just that.

Sponge'K'nob
November 1st '05, 10:05 PM
How do you flirt? Its too hard for me:(
to be honest....i dont no how to explain.
Theres no rules for flirting.
It just happens...without planning work, and you cant help yourself it just happens.
Theres no pecific way of flirting, everyone des it differently in there own way, it will come naturally, when the time is right.

Brianna.
November 2nd '05, 04:03 AM
I love to flirt. I've learned not to get involved emotionally when I do it from past experiances.


It makes me feel good about myself.

Haunting_Echoes
November 2nd '05, 09:31 AM
I don't think I flirt. I'm just myself. I mean depending what day it is, I can be really serious or just coming out with sexual inuendo. It just depends. I think if you're yourself, whatever your flirting style is will come through.

NATAL!E
November 2nd '05, 04:51 PM
I think I just, mess around with guys. Even if I don't outright fancy them, it's a bit of fun with guy mates. I don't seem to flirt with people I actually fancy, though.. Well, I don't know really.

But anyways, for me, flirting is classed as messing around and making the guy notice you, and not about going up to them and going 'Omg, I soooo fancy you' lol.

Wibbl
November 6th '05, 07:12 PM
the worst is when they start flirting with you and end up going for your mate

i did that once, i felt bad

Pearson
November 6th '05, 09:05 PM
If you play with feathers you get your arsed tickled