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pressure
October 23rd '05, 10:15 PM
ok so last time i did this i told youa ll about my ex bf, who was lazya nd unattentive

well hes gone, he dumped me !!!!! he said how he didnt want a relationship anymore. That was 2 tuesdays ago. iv always liked his best mate but never told him or his mate.
my mate and i like my ex's best mate, we went to see him thursdaya nd we told him we both liked him and he said one of us is gona get hurt because he likes one of us but not the other

i thought he was gona choose her, but he fancies the arse off me lol

so he told me he fancies me and things took off from there, we started going out 2 saturdays ago. :)

my ex dnt know about it yet

what really makes me angry is
1. he didnt give me a good reason as to why he dumped me
2. he was smoking weed when he was going out with me and i dnt liek it and he knew tht
3. he was complaining to his best mate about how he couldnt look at other girls when we went out
4. he told his mate he wants to be 'young, free and stupid again'
5. hes already met with another girl and fucked her
my bf (his mate) told me them lol

what is wrong with this bloke??????????????????????????

can anyone suggest a reason for him to be such as arse about this???????
i could have handled it if he said i wana see other ppl because i am still young!!!!
Duroxis
October 23rd '05, 10:31 PM
Some guys are just truely (insert horrid word here), even though I am a guy I've seen how some of us are and its unacceptable, no real answer to the question tho :/
~sexy_biatch~
October 23rd '05, 10:53 PM
He sounds to me as if hes a bad boy out for a fuck.
Hes young....he will grow out of it, and eventually regret it.
You sound better off with who you are with....but are you sure hes telling you the total truth about your ex?
Just be careful :) xx
Mamfy
October 24th '05, 07:39 AM
Yeah, I agree with Kaye! I just think your ex is immature and hasn't properly grown out of it yet. He can't seem to handle being in a relationship for longer than a few months without getting bored. He is still immature and would rather fuck around with other girls than settle down and have a good relationship with a girl.

If I was you, I would try and get him out of your mind, he did some bad things when you were together and they're not worth getting upset over. It sounds like his best mate is nice but just be careful, for all you know he could be saying all these bad things about your ex so that you completely hate him and would never go out with him again JUST so this new boy can have you all to himself. Just be weary and take everything he says about your ex with a pinch of salt.

Look after yourself:)
pressure
October 24th '05, 02:20 PM
i hear what u r saying. i spoke to my ex today and he said what my bf said is true

we spoke for ages today and most of it is sorted.
my ex knows were going out now and hes ok with it.

my ex said he doesnt think he will be fucking for a while but you never know hey......

anyway, things are kinda cool for the moment but obviously things still need to be said. the things tht were said helped a lil
Mamfy
October 24th '05, 02:27 PM
Good, I'm glad to hear you have discussed it and sorted most of it out!
manutd 4 ever
October 24th '05, 02:37 PM
i hear what u r saying. i spoke to my ex today and he said what my bf said is true

we spoke for ages today and most of it is sorted.
my ex knows were going out now and hes ok with it.

my ex said he doesnt think he will be fucking for a while but you never know hey......

anyway, things are kinda cool for the moment but obviously things still need to be said. the things tht were said helped a lil

he wont be fuckin? yeah right...
pressure
October 24th '05, 03:19 PM
he wont be fuckin? yeah right...


i can only go on what hes told me
Bob!
October 24th '05, 04:42 PM
Hmph aye, seems he just got bored. (no offence to u).
So hed rather throw u away an go an relieve boredom by changin things as in screwin diff girls and just havin a fun time for hisself.

Well in a few years time if he does acually change a bit and want to settle down with a nice girl and live his life properly, hell think different if he aint got anyone to do that with.

His own feckin fault tbh.
~sexy_biatch~
October 24th '05, 09:45 PM
all lads are the same, they all get bored if they are this young.
this is one reason lasses go for the mature lad!
hope everything ok with you and ur new bf, its prob helped now its in the open.
Bob!
October 24th '05, 10:19 PM
Bullshiat kaye, lasses do the same.

Happens all the damn time. http://img356.imageshack.us/img356/2224/sleep.gif


But aye Pressure at least yav got a new person, just make sure he doesent do the same, or is only with ya for a lil mess about hisself.

Either way ya last one will learn from his mistakes eventually, and if not then, his loss.