Kissing a boy I don't like

[chocolatepocky]

So there's this guy who sometimes catches the same bus as me home. And he likes one of my friends. A LOT, even though he barely knows her and he likes her for characteristics that she doesn't really have... I'm not being jealous or bitchy here, she agrees that he's not loving her for who she is, and he has a false impression of who she is.

Anyway, I had this dream that me, my friend (the one he likes) and he were out together for some unexplained reason. And then she was pushing him to marry me or something and he wasn't exactly very enthusiastic about the idea. In my dream, I walked away to move near a building built of reflective glass. I said "It's ok it doesn't matter". But then he came up from behind me and gently brushed my lips with his and said something like "Marry me?". I can't really remember.

But in my dream I saw our reflection, him bending down slightly so he could kiss me. And in the dream, I said, "But do you really love me?" But I didn't move away so as I spoke my lips were still touching his.

I don't get it, the dream makes it sound like I'm wistful and want him to like me but in real life he pisses me off because I feel like he thinks I'm stupid sometimes. And overall, I just don't particularly like him because he seems to also portray me as the evil jealous woman and my friend as the sweet little girl type.

But what's with the dream about marriage and true love then?

[Leon]

The mind works in funny ways, i can't think of a reason to explain that dream.
Unless it is simply you imagining something like an opposite situation, sometimes people have dreams about things the opposite or backwards way. Maybe that's all it is.

[chocolatepocky]

Lol you're probably right.. xD It was a pretty random dream after all, haha.

[oOoBubblesoOo]

well dreaming of marriage means you feel balanced and in control of your emotions. I think secretly your could well be jealous that shes gets attention alot.

[jess]

Dreams are caused by unresolved issues in your unconscious mind, it sounds to me of a classic case that you really do like this boy on an unconscious level and your conscious mind is trying to block out these feelings by telling you that you detest this boy to protect you from harm because you know that this boy likes your friend and to stop you from feelings of jealousy by trying to convince you that you dont like him.

[chocolatepocky]

Lol maybe.. xD The jealousy bit is probably right hmm but he really does make me quite angry sometimes :P Well it's all good now :) I don't see him very often anyway and I've been getting to know some guys pretty well... just as friends though, I'm not really interested in dating at the mo.. so I spose I shouldn't feel jealous anymore right? Cos I'm getting some attention of my own? Lol