Why Do Girls Loose Interest So Fast?

[rangeralex]

Why is it so damn hard to meet someone who you can call your girlfriend. Someone you can call everynight and who will go out of their way to be with you. Someone who will hold you and tell you how much they love being with you. I have really only had one girlfriend in my life. She was a girl I met my senior year of high school. We dated for about 3 months, but decided not to try and carry it over to college. I’m now a sophomore in college and I have yet to have a girlfriend since. I’d like to think I am an attractive guy; I work out and am on an athletic team at my college. I very involved in my team and the girls team as well. I treat women with respect and I try to get to know them a little bit before I ask them to be my girlfriend so I don’t sound like I just want to have sex. My freshman year, I wasn’t really in the market for a girlfriend, but this year I became a little proactive about the whole thing. I started asking girls out on dates, and I have had some fun. However, nothing has turned into a relationship of any sort past the first date or two. It seems like we go out on one or two dates and they just suddenly loose interest. I usually wind up getting the "im too busy" routine. What the hell? I am really searching for someone that is interested in a long-term relationship right now, but nothing ever seems to happen. It's not like I try to put on an "act" or anything the first date either. I just try to be myself. And why is it that I always have to ask them? Can’t a girl ask a guy out on a date? I’m even starting to feel somewhat lonely/depressed, something that I have never felt before in my life. I hate this crap….why is it so hard to meet someone who wants the same things you do?

[Mikki]

Okay, to start off with - It's not just girls who lose interest so fast.

And to find that someone who'll go out of their way, hold you, and tell you that they love you - I don't think it's supposed to be that easy. It really does take time to find that.

The "I'm too busy" routine, usually means "I'm not interested" or she could really be busy. If she isn't interested, then there's no point sulking about it, she probably wasn't right for you anyway.

Everything is changing, girls actually do ask guys out now. You shouldn't be in such a rush to find a girlfriend, that sets you up for disappointment, it even makes you feel more lonely when you keep thinking about it. Why not just wait, the girl you're looking for will turn up.

Sorry, that's all I can say =|

[Deimos]

Okay, to start off with - It's not just girls who lose interest so fast.

we'll he's not gonna complain about guys losing interest in him is he?

[Brunette]

well ...the right gurl will come ,

[Mikki]

we'll he's not gonna complain about guys losing interest in him is he?

Well that was just a normal automatic response, because we all know most males tend to blame females for everything :)

[God.]

That's because they're at fault for everything. (Joke)

Patience is the only thing here, even if you were in a relationship.

I've only ever had one girlfriend, and I waited 2 days short of 20 years for her. It was difficult at the beginning, but now she's all over me and we're both very much in love.

20 years was nothing if you end up like me, and I'm sure that it'll happen to you too.

[Jimbob]

Maybe your trying too hard. Sometimes you've just got to take a step back and relax a bit and when you do find someone you interested in, you've got to keep their attention.