should I give in?!?

[Lil_miss_vixen]

hey people i need some advice..second a opinion.. well there's this boy who i've liked for ages..years :( sad i know...but nothing has ever happened with us...then i moved away and ..bout two weeks he has a new girlfriend..then ..after a two years...we just talk on the msn and stuff sayin he still likes me...now ..he's single again..sayin that he never got over me...what should i do...i like him but...maybe even him...but...i dont WANT TO BE SECOND CHOICE !!! ..so what should i do ...give in and start a relationship with him...and swallow my pride..or..stand up for what i believe and left...the only person..who i might of ...loved go...
...then again ...i'm not sure i can ..like him like that anymore...because...he obvi didnt like/ love me enough to wait... ..what should i do fight back:mad: or...left love or whatever it is win.. help me please!!!!

[Shane]

To be honest I think the best thing to do here would be to go with your heart. Dont be stubborn and fight back by letting him down. If it has been 2 ears and he still thinks about you then there is something there.

[Mamfy]

Maybe he didn't go out with you because he didn't know how you felt about him. Maybe he thought you didn't like him or something, therefore went with another girl. You can't say that just because he got a new girlfriend instead of you that he didn't like/love you. Maybe it was a cover up, or maybe he was trying to hide his true feelings, we don't know.

But I think like Shane said, you should follow your heart, do what you feel is right for you and what will make you happy. In the end, you have liked this boy for years, so why give up on him now when you have come this far? If you love him as much as I think you do, you wouldn't just drop him when gets a new girl

[~sexy_biatch~]

Bloody hell! lol Right...you were 2 years younger back then!
He obviously feels something for you if he has told you years down the line.
Maybe being with someone else made him realised how much he likes, and missed you.
You got to ask yourself the question...do you like him?
If not, theres no point in getting upset about it, as they all say "theres plently more fish in the sea"
Do you live far away from him now? Sometimes relationships dont work if you live far away!
Like Shane and Mamfy said....go with your feelings, and thats the best you can do.
Just talk it out with him, and know what your feelings are.
Let us know how you get on!

[Conal]

To be honest, this is a tricky situation. This lad could either love you or could be just board with being single and he knows that he can have you. Be careful with what you do here, because if you don't get with him... you might not get as hurt as being with him.

[Lil_miss_vixen]

To be honest, this is a tricky situation. This lad could either love you or could be just board with being single and he knows that he can have you. Be careful with what you do here, because if you don't get with him... you might not get as hurt as being with him.
this is what i'm scared could be true.....plus he cheated on his girlfriend...maybe he might do it to me..
he's actually liked me for 6 years....
but i dont know...and i live in china and he lives in england...not exactly next door

[Mamfy]

Oh no I wouldn't, seriously! You couldn't keep it up! How did you meet? Over the internet? Or did you go to school together or something?

I don't think you should go out with him, because you could do it for a certain amount of time but then he will want to have a physical relationship to it too and he won't be able to cope, and neither will you. Never being able to kiss him or hug him or just look into his eyes. It will be too hard on you. In my opinion.

[Lil_miss_vixen]

we use to live near each other....it's like a whole 6 year long story...so confusing ..and plus...there's a another problem the fact that his best friend loves me....but..when he cheated on his girlfriend he was drunk...and she had..kissed someone else too...they've bin like on and off for 2 years....but i still like him...but i dont know if i want to be with him...