Leaving

[sweet8060]

So in 9 months I am planing to leave my family. As the day gets closer I get more nervous about it. My mom wants to make me feel guilty about it and sometimes at night all I can do is cry because of it. I know that once I move out I will be better off because I won't be in this hell hole of a town. My boyfriend totally wants me to move closer to him seeing as he lives forever away from me. He totally believes in me like my family doesn't. Is there anyway for me to not feel guilty about getting ready to leave my family? I'm ganna be 17 the day after christmas. And where I live it is leagal to move out when you are 17 but where I want to move they perfer you to be 18 when you live on your own.

[EceYenii]

So in 9 months I am planing to leave my family.

hmm are uu pregnant or smth?? is that why ur going to leave in 9 months??
but uu know ii think uu r still a bit too young to leave all of ur family behind and go away. did uu plan everything?? where ur going to stay?? how ur going to make munny?? think about the consequences...nd do u really wanna do that to ur parents??

[Dani_x]

why do you plan to move out in 9months? you should wait until you know you can afford it, your going to have bills to pay, food to buy, you'l need 2buy all the house hold assentials. if your feeling guilty about it then are you 100% sure this is what you want?

[sweet8060]

I'm not pregnant. My bf and I are planning to live together in an apartment his uncle owns. I'll make money by getting a job. It really shouldn't hurt my parents. They know I'm ganna do it and I told them not to stop me. I plan on moving out because I can't stand this druggie town and I can't stand the people in it. I can't stand to be in my house any more because it is like a war zone all the time. I'm not 100% sure I want to do it, but I don't think I could accuatally stand to live in my house much longer. If I do live there I'm probably ganna start getting into tons of trouble.

[Rashella]

If its what you think is best for you and you can cope, then you should go. Your parents are worried, 16 is a young age to leave home and theyre probably thinking about what someone above mentioned, bills, food ect.

You should get a good idea what responsibilities you will have after you move out, 16 is old enough to decide but dont expect a life of bliss and total freedom as i very much doubt it will live up to it. You will need some money to start out with so if your serious i suggest you get a job and ask advice of someone who can tell you what to expect.

Dont depend on your boyfriend either because things can very quickly go wrong between you when put under the kind of stress you will be under, with eachother everyday, things will be different and most likely turn sour.

[Dani_x]

remember things could go terribly wrong between you and your bf, then what would you do?
If you really are determind to move out off your parents now then you may be better off trying to get a job now and putting some of the money away. Maybe buying a few essentials you will need and putting them away for when you move, even if its just towels, plates, cutelry..atleast then WHEN you do move out you wont need to buy them then

[sweet8060]

I don't think n e thing will go wrong between my bf and I. We are so much alike and he supports my every move. I'm in love with him. I couldn't see myself with any other guy.

[Rashella]

Well as i said things will be much different between you and most people think they'll be with their first love forever - till death do us part and everything, but its nearly never the case.