Confused...

[pure-gal]

Hi...guyz I'm confused "big time". I noe this guy for 5 years now and he loves me and he's a great guy and I love him 2 (I guess). Recently I've been really mean 2 him, see were living in different countries and I used 2 talk 2 him regularly but since a week almost I dont feel like talking 2 him but when I don't I just wanna call him and can't control myself but when I do call him I talk 2 him badly and just wanna put down the fone. Wats wrong with me?...I dunno why I'm feeling like this...you think u guyz can help me out...??:sadangel:

[Leon]

Hi...guyz I'm confused "big time". I noe this guy for 5 years now and he loves me and he's a great guy and I love him 2 (I guess). Recently I've been really mean 2 him, see were living in different countries and I used 2 talk 2 him regularly but since a week almost I dont feel like talking 2 him but when I don't I just wanna call him and can't control myself but when I do call him I talk 2 him badly and just wanna put down the fone. Wats wrong with me?...I dunno why I'm feeling like this...you think u guyz can help me out...??:sadangel:You love him you guess? You need to work out whether you really do or not soon.

You live in different countries? How do you expect this to work, I'm not saying it can't, but it will be really hard to make a proper relationship out of it. I hope you can find a way around this.

And being mean to someone you like is nothing new, it's kinda like an old saying, you treat the ones you like the most the meanest. It's perfectly normal.
If you struggle to talk to him this could just be down to nerves or anything like that if you like him the way you say you do, it all seems perfectly normal to me. It sounds like you really like him, and just don't want to show it to him, which is why you put on this mean act, but really deep down you like him back the same way he does you. :)