Slight Problem

[sweet8060]

I love my bf to death but my xbf is getting so jealous. I mean normally that wouldn't be a problem, but my xbf lives with my family. Even last night my xbf was all over me wanting sex, and I literally had to kick him to keep him off of me. It is making me all depressed because I'm stuck at my house and my parent's want me to be with my xbf, but I can't stand him. I can't stand the way he uses girls or the way he uses drugs. I don't know what to do anymore. My bf is away at college and he really can't do anything about it. I feel like I'm being pressured into doing things I don't want to do......it's almost like nobody will let me make my own decisions anymore. I feel so lost and confused. I asked my parents to make him move out but they won't. They just keep on telling me how I should be with him because he is god's gift to the world. Any advice?

[Kerry]

Gods Gift??? Do your parents know the whole story? Is he all goody goody in front of them?

I don't think so. Do your parents know he only wants you for sex and he uses drugs?
Anyways, I'd take no notice of them you know who you like and they don't you don't want a sex freak and a druggie.

This is what I would do btw, I'm not telling you to do so, It's your choice though. I wouls threaten to leave and I would pack my bags and say, ''Chuck him out or else I'm off'' - Thats what I'd do but then again...You can always talk to them when he's not there. I feel sorry for you aswell cos it can't be much fun having your ex living with you. Tell your mum and dad what he does to you aswell, you never know it might show them what he really is.

Good Luck!!!!!:)

[Leon]

Why does your ex boyfriend live with you?

[Bebot]

I could ask the same question..

[sweet8060]

Cuz his mom got tired of his crap and he didn't have any other place to live so my parents let him live here. No matter what I tell them about him they don't believe.

[Leon]

Then you're parents are idiots, believing your ex over you, their daughter. I sympathise with you as I can imagine what it must be like, you need to tell someone of authority that something is going on.

[sweet8060]

I don't know if i trust anybody around this town though. They all seem the same. They all are out to get ppl that really need help. And they don't even get the bad guys 99% of the time.

[Leon]

The Police?

[sweet8060]

yes the police here are pretty much all the same. They never do anything for anybody. Unless they just flat out don't like you then they will find some kind of reason to pull you over or what not.