Question

[Havanesegirl]

I have been thinking for a while now and ive made a decsion that I want to have a child, but theres one problem I dont have a boyfriend. I dont want to have a child when Im older and everyone says I would be a great mother

[vikki_727]

Well, i think your to young, being 17 and having a child is goin to be a hard work. do you even have a job? you gotta support the baby some how and be able to be there for it all the time. its alot more then jus 'being a good mother', its alot of work.
i think you should think it through a lil more

[~Wayne~]

Bad idea full stop.

[Margot]

hi, I can understand that you will have a child, but do you realize that you are still very young. You said that you don't even have a boyfriend so If I were you I would in any case wait till you've got a boyfriend with whom you are very serious, then you are young enough for having a baby. Good luck

[lucille]

If you can't spell decision you're probably not quite ready for motherhood.

[Kate]

Rep point to Peach xD

[Rashella]

Most girl teenagers feel like having a baby would be cool at one stage but when you dont feel like one any more,and your friends are living life to the full, what ya gonna do?

[Kerry]

To be a good mum you gotta have support for your baby, it isn't just giving it love you know? People say you'd be a good mum you may be loving and maternal, but to be a good mum you need a supportive partner the kid usually needs a father figure aswell. It's not just about I want a kid all I have to do is get a boyfriend. You really need to think about this a bit more because you could easy get yourself in a right mess and the kid will suffer the consequences and you don't want that. You may not wnt a child when your older but why not you're older and know more stuff. (I'm not saying you don't know now). All I'm saying is don't have a child because you feel like one now, wait till to you have a steady partner and then see how you feel. Good Luck. :).

[Leon]

Before you even consider having a child you should really have sufficient funds and a stable relationship. Otherwise it all messes up in the end.
It hardly ever works out for people at your age either, so don't even bother with it in my opionion.

[Eyesofangel313]

I'm pregnant right now, i'm 3 months It wasn't planned my hubby and are together and he's working i'm 19 and he's 21 we are still going to have issues you should wait till your older. I agree with peach if you can't spell decision I think you should wait.