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Sxc_guy
March 28th '07, 10:39 AM
Hay, Ive got a really big Problem and any advice i could get would be gr8ly appreciated.

My Mum latley has been relli agressive towards me, she has been yelling at me and tonight she said she wants to die because of our family, i have been told its just a bad day but its been happening for about a week now, She has been takign it out on myself and she says our family wont last and she will walk out the door, but both my dad and my brothers love the way we are, I have packed my bags ready and think im the casue of the problem so should i leave, what do i do, i love my mum and family :'(

Rashella
March 28th '07, 07:37 PM
Has she said any particular reason why she wants to leave?

Maybe just try to let her know how much you appreciate her (I know from experience, me and my mum umm.. you could say we've had our dark spots) Maybe give her a bit of a break. Get you and your bro and dad to do the washing up or hoovering more often maybe. And as i said find out the root of the problem, she might just be stressed but itd be easier to help if i knew.

Raven
March 29th '07, 04:09 AM
As already stated, find the root of the problem. But you could also just ask to talk with your father first, and see if he knows what is going on. Then try to have a one-on-one talk with your mother, ask her why she's feeling down, and then tell her how she's making you feel. It may seem cliche', but I actually talk to my parents whenever they or I feel down and it works.

Leon
March 29th '07, 11:51 PM
You don't know that you are the root of the problem, you need to find out what the problem is and try to work on it best you can.
I hope you can sort it out.

sweet8060
March 30th '07, 01:25 PM
I'm sure your mom loves you deep down and I'm sure you are not the problem. Has anything changed in her life? Like a new stressor??? That could be the cause of all of it.