What Should I Do When I Go On The First "Date"?

[J-Dawg520]

Yah so I need sum advice here. There's this one girl that I really like. The thing is, she's a senior. So I won't get to see her at school nxt yr. She seems to like me the same way I like her, but I'm still unsure. So what do u all think I should do??

thanx, James

[Gardens]

Hmm...I was in a predicament kind of like that...And I had two long distance relationships that failed.... If you date her, it might be fun for the time she's there, but when she leaves to go to college, the long distance will be really hard...Believe me on that one. And, what grade are you in?

[J-Dawg520]

I'm a Junior

[Gardens]

oh, k. Maybe it wont be that bad?? I'm a junior, but I'm already graduated....so hmm....do you like her a lot?

[J-Dawg520]

yah I really like her, I mean ALOT

anyone else have any ideas on what I should do???

I've got a thread like this out already but I've decided to make a new one.

Ok, so there's this girl that I really like, but I'm unsure if she has feelings 4 me the way I do 4 her. I've asked her if me -n- her could hang out, she said yes to that. But the thing is, I'm not sure if I should take it any further, what do y'all think???

Edit:(Removed avatar comment - we don't want people getting confused now do we:P)

[Leon]

What's the age difference between a junior and a senior? Is it a year? I've always wondered.

You need to make up you mind if you think it will be worth it when she leaves. If you like her enough to commit to her while she is away, knowing that you may barely see her, then you should go for it if she is ok with it too. :)

[Gardens]

i agree with him....you may decide its not worth it.....but you never know.



What's the age difference between a junior and a senior? Is it a year? I've always wondered.

You need to make up you mind if you think it will be worth it when she leaves. If you like her enough to commit to her while she is away, knowing that you may barely see her, then you should go for it if she is ok with it too. :)

[audrina]

You have to follow your heart if u like her like u say u do u should tell her she should know if a guy liked me that way i would definetly want to know

[Leon]

i agree with him....you may decide its not worth it.....but you never know. You quoted but didn't answer my question? Someone please?

[J-Dawg520]

I asked her out for a drink sumtime one of these weekends, and she basically said yah

[Leon]

I asked her out for a drink sumtime one of these weekends, and she basically said yahGreat :)
Have fun! See what happens, hopefully you will get what you both want.

[Gardens]

Yes, its a year


You quoted but didn't answer my question? Someone please?

basically? what does that mean?

I asked her out for a drink sumtime one of these weekends, and she basically said yah

[J-Dawg520]

what I meant is that she said yes, she juss doesn't kno when.

[Leon]

Yes, its a yearThanks, I guess that makes no difference to it really then.:)

[dev12692]

deos she know you realy like her?


Edit: oops sorry stupid attack :p


-Devin

[J-Dawg520]

yah I think she does kno, I've sorta been makin it a lil obvious 4 her.

[J-Dawg520]

I'm talkin to her on MSN, and she said we can go but strictly as friends, which is fine w/ me.

[Leon]

I'm talkin to her on MSN, and she said we can go but strictly as friends, which is fine w/ me.If it's fine with you then it's all good:)

[Arinais]

congrats

[J-Dawg520]

Hey I've mentioned this girl I like b4, so I was wondering, what should I do on the first "date". I'd consider it a date, but I don't think she would, so...what should I do when that time comes???

Thanx, James

[Leon]

Merged with your other thread as it just carries on from the other one.



I'm talkin to her on MSN, and she said we can go but strictly as friends, which is fine w/ me.You say that she wants you to go out strictly as friends so I don't see why you are asking us about your 'first date'.

And for very similar advice check this thread out: http://www.teenageforums.com/forums/showthread.php?t=12708&highlight=date

It's basically the same advice you would recieve on there for a date:)

[J-Dawg520]

yah I see what u mean

But to me it's like a date, it wouldn't be for her.

[Leon]

But she already said it isn;t so stop thinking of it as one really.

[J-Dawg520]

I kno that I need to stop thinkin of it like that. And I'm trying.