Oh f***...HELP?

[dev12692]

ok we werent realy doing anything, but making out. cloths were on, didnt have a boner, but my girls dad found us sitting in the back of her car and he started cussing and telling her and her little bro( who was playing in she street behind the house) to get inside. he used to trust me like a son. :'( now im f***ing dead
this was like an hr ago,

how long should i wait before calling her or confronting her dad?
is snogging (making out)realy that bad in a dads eyes?
anything els i should know, and i mean anything please help me :'(


-Devin

[Leon R]

i dont know how the dad thinks exacly but i would say that it just something he'll get over soon my best advice is to talk to her to see whats up as soon as u can

[Forumfavorite]

well I can't think like a dad yet, but he probably doesn't want to see his girl "grow up" so fast or he just doesn't want guy's to corrupt her so to speak. Dads don't like to see there daughters make out or do anything of that nature. When I went out with my ex, we were caught making out and her dad yelled at me and hugged her and asked me a bunch of questions

[dev12692]

was it scary? how old was ya?


-Devin

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I was 16 she was 15 and when I got causght I was scared lol

[dev12692]

it was like an 2 hrs ago now and im still shakeing :s

big scary heavy set guy :'(


-Devin

[Forumfavorite]

I'm sorry. That really sucks, but how old are you? If your under 18, he can't legally touch you. so don't think he's gonna beat you up. Maybe just some yelling. That's what I had to go through. He asked me how many girlfriends I had had before her and if I was a virgin and dumb questions like that.

[dev12692]

14 so is she. im still scared though!!! :s *sighs* she's only my 2nd girlfriend 1st serius girlfriend :P im scared!

has this happend to ya more then once?


-Devin

[Forumfavorite]

no that was my only time I got caught, but not the only time I made out with girls.
Look man, you just got to face him. take it and hope for the best. You can't run away from him.

[dev12692]

*sigh* okay...


-Devin

[Forumfavorite]

good luck!

[Kerry]

Well I already told ya what my bit in MSN but still :D

You just gotta show him you really do love her and ya care about her. The rest I said already. :)

Good Luck :p

[Leon]

I'm not surprised her Dad was a bit angry, with the fact that your are both 14, it's only an expected reaction really.

[dev12692]

you think he will be still pissed off at me today? (the day after) should i try and talk to him?


-Devin

[Say-My-Name!]

I don't know if you've sorted it out yet but if you haven't, maybe give him a day or two to calm down? He probably see's his 14 year old daughter as his baby still..
One way or another he has to face the facts that his daughter is growing up, So I wouldn't worry, I think he'll come around.. Just don't let him catch you again huh?! :)

[dev12692]

haha i got out of it this time she talked to him and he thinks we were just talking. because he has been telling deanna( my girl) she should go back out with me. (we had a 10 month relationship before we took a break because i moved for a while) so he doesnt even know we are going back out again. if he did know what we were doing he would have killed me right there :s

im lucky this time


-Devin

[Say-My-Name!]

You're VERY lucky this time! :)