Pros and Cons moving to dads?

[iaxa]

hmms. lately i have been really stressed out to the max. i was thinking about moving but i dunno its pretty far away and i cant really make up my mind so yeah some help please?

Pro for living with my Mum

I have heaps of friends down here
I have things to do here (movies, hang out with friends etc)
I have a basketball club here


Con
i fight alot with my family
i hate my school
i hate nearly all the people in my grade cept my friends which are about the only people who dont do drugs and sleep around :S
i cant go fishing as much due to the fact that there isnt many fishing spots
i miss my dad and my lil bro :S


Pros for living with my dad

i get to see my little brother and my dad
school is alot better there
more fishing and camping
i wont see my sister as much
i dont fight with my dad that much

Cons

step mum and i have issues
i want be on the internet as much just how he is.
if me and my dad fight which is almost never it gets a bit crazy
no baskteball
i will miss my friends

well i dunno i will let you guys see what you think really bugging me if i do move it will be after next lot of holidays so i guess i have some time to think about it but i wanna let my mum know soon.

[Leon]

You have to think to yourself, are the pors for your Dad's better than the pros for your Mums, I mean yeah you will get to go fishing more, but is that worth giving up all your friends?
Balance them out against each other and honestly think to yourself which would you prefer having.

You might move to your Dad's house and still be mad and having conflict as you said you have issues with your stepmum.

[Fez]

I live with my dad. i think its pretty fun. the only think that annoys me is when his girldfriend shows up. that good for nothing bitch.
but ya.. its not like i have an option, but my dad's cool so i really dont have a problem livin with him

[iaxa]

yeah but they all seem to balance out to me. i wanna change but i regret to much. what should i do flip a coin or something?

[Kate]

Rowan, if i were you, the closeness of the Marine biology university would make me move to my dads, and you did want to do marine biology ey?

[Fez]

yeah but they all seem to balance out to me. i wanna change but i regret to much. what should i do flip a coin or something?

make them thumb wrestle each other. or the classic rock paper scissor shoot battle also helps:ninja*: the winner keeps you..
or ya just flip a coin, thats easier :gay:

[Leon]

Decide which would be better off for your future. If that what KAte said is true then move to your Dad's. Focus on your future.

[Gardens]

I was forced to go to my dads, and actually, the pros and cons of what you said are very similar to mine. I enjoy it here much more..its more beneficial to me, but yes, i do miss my friends, the activities, and my mom and brothers. But the positive outweighs the good in a lot of ways.

[iaxa]

Rowan, if i were you, the closeness of the Marine biology university would make me move to my dads, and you did want to do marine biology ey?

yeah i guess. i will have to talk it over with my mum and dad together at the same time *RUNS FOR THE HILLS*.

my mum and dad hate each other it is very childisnh over them to act like that that isnt going to help my cirrent situation isnt it :S