Single people

[PrincessAlice]

It really pisses me off how single people think couples shouldnt be happy!! I mean these people complaining about it now are gonna feel different when they have somebody.... so why be so bitter towards couples?

And you people complaining about your mates not seeing you cos they're with their boyfriend i'm sure you dont understand how hard it is to juggle between friends and boyfriends/girlfriends... end of day you should be happy that they are happy after all they are your mate

[Leon]

It really pisses me off how single people think couples shouldnt be happy!! I mean these people complaining about it now are gonna feel different when they have somebody.... so why be so bitter towards couples?

And you people complaining about your mates not seeing you cos they're with their boyfriend i'm sure you dont understand how hard it is to juggle between friends and boyfriends/girlfriends... end of day you should be happy that they are happy after all they are your mateI'm single, don't really have a problem with couples, if anything I'm a bit jealous:(

I just hope I can meet someone nice soon really.

[PrincessAlice]

:p i didn't mean you leon, love! you don't seem to be bitter about many people

[VampyrMaggot]

i don't mean not letting couples be happy, but just don't intentionally make single people feel bad.....if they're just out of a relationship/relationships have failled etc, they're prob already gonna be feeling down.....last think they need is couples rubbing their faces in it.

if your happy, be happy. thats fine. not saying no-one should be happy just cos some single people aren't. but when a couple start basically having dry sex in front of u, on your own spare bed, when u where half way through talking to em (claire/tish did that to me)......well is that really very nice? i was taken when that happened, and i still didn't find it very nice

[PrincessAlice]

yeah but i'm sure their not rubbing it in your face...

oh well i still think bitter single people should get over it

[~Wayne~]

You only think its being rubbed in your face because you are almost looking for people being happy so it winds you up it sounds to me...

[Fez]

lol. is this because of kate's thread? :p

[PrincessAlice]

kates and vampyrmaggots

but it does piss me off generally

[Leon]

:p i didn't mean you leon, love! you don't seem to be bitter about many peopleAhh good:)

[Shane]

Each to their own and all that. Anyone bitter about anything is being silly really.

[xMissIzzyx]

I gave up on being bitter about stuff, doesn't get me anywhere.
I'll meet someone soon hopefully n if not then eventually :)

[Bob!]

It easy to be jealous/bitter and so on, especially about the blokes who intentionally act absolute arseholes and then end up surrounded by women but, its something I constantly work on and supress cause as Izzy said it doesent really get ya anywhere and only makes you or other people feel worse if ya let if get the better of ya.

[PrincessAlice]

i don't normally agree with anything izzy has to say but i agree with her about bitterness not getting you anywhere

[tf_arl_90]

Single people should be happy for their friends who are happy. I think it's perfectly acceptable for them to occasionally get annoyed if they're being ignored by a friend who is consumed with their relationship. However, all the time? Absolutely not. Besides, who wants to be around a bitter friend when they are happily involved in their relationship? It might make the point at first but after a while it gets real old real fast.

Similarly those in the relationship should make the effort to split their time up accordingly. Abandoning a friend because "it's hard to juggle everything" works for the first couple weeks, but after that I think it's just as unfair as a person who whines about their friend not having time for them, imo.

I guess what I'm saying is that both sides have to make small sacrifices. It's a part of life and people need to get used to it.

[lucille]

I hate single people who complain about how nobody loves them or want them.

I have only four words for people who come to me with such a ridiculous problem@

Build a fucking bridge.

[Tangerine]

It sucks to go to a movie with a bunch of your friends and be the only single person..I ended up leaving because it was a horrid movie (Date Movie) and I was just surrounded by making out couples.

Now that I'm taken I try to be considerate around my single friends when I'm with my girlfriend because I too agree that it is not fun to be trying to talk to some one while they are all over their boyfriend or girlfriend.

I hate it when single people try guilt tripping me when I'm talking to them.
E.g.
Random single friend: "You are SO lucky! No one likes me..I mean we barely get to hang out anymore now your taken..etc.etc."

I mean, it is not MY fault they are single. What am I supposed to do?

[Sweetest.x.Sin]

Yeah I know!
I mean I know and don't just think, but KNOW that couples out there can be happy and should be together if they really love each other, and if they work together which relationships need to grow is alot of love, trust, honesty, and work to work through your problems, I believe people can be happy together.
I don't think it's fair for others who are single to try and bring couples that are happy down just because they aren't happy, but that's okay they get theirs.
I'm single and not looking for anyone and just happy being single, and I'm happy for all my friends who have relationships and I always try and help them out whenever I can so they can work through things with good advice. I don't get all jealous, but people who do are immature.
Immature people annoy me.