Break down

[Sponge'K'nob]

Months of stress here and I don't know where to begin.
Broke down into tears today, mainly after the fact my mum has fucked up my hair.
Over the last 10 months I have got my hair to a colour that I like, brown.
My mum and a lot of my family have told me straight out they prefer it blonde, and a few of my friends have aswel so I came round to the idea of going blonde again, my natural colour.
So here I am sat with FUCKED UP hair, I am not going into college or work tomorrow, no way, not looking like this.
Okay so I am rather pissed off at this, but it's probably nothing.
Okay..guys. :( I never ever find a guy that I like who likes me back.
I have really pretty friends, and knowone looks at me, ever.
I have got a million and one things in my mind right now, I don't know where to start to say it all out and grrrr I need one hell of a cry. :(

[xMissIzzyx]

You want to pm or MSN or something?
I totally understand how you feel, honestly. When big things are bothering you and you dunno what you can do about it, little things set you off.
Hit back yeah if you need anything. *huggle*

[Leon]

Sorry to hear about your hair, if you liked it brown you should have what you like, not other people.
As for the guy thing, there are guys out there who like you, and going out with your friends will help you to find someone more than not doing.

Wanna chat, just message me on here on msn:)
I'd be happy to help
...I sound like I work at Asda or summat haha

[Innamorata]

Argh, don't remind me.

What's wrong with your hair? Wear a hat or a headscarf or something until you can go buy emergency hair dye, dark brown should hopefully cover it up if it's the colour.

[Bob!]

As to ya hair, it looked fine both brown and blonde tbh so don't go messin with it just cause other people have told ya to, have what ya want once ya get it fixed. :)

And as to the rest I can't really say much, always had that kinda problem meself and ya probs need a female shoulder to cry on anyways. :/

[xMissIzzyx]

Just reread thread again, didn't really give a good reply last night, was kinda half asleep.
I spend most of my time wishing I was better looking and that people noticed me. Whenever I go out with my best mate she gets pretty much 99% of the looks. I'm not even sure why to be honest but she does, she just has one of those faces that makes you like look twice at it, it's stunning. But I've my fair share of boyfriends and lovers and whatever, and I've been in love, and he loved me for me as well as how I looked whereas she has meaningless shags now n again while her bf sits at home waiting for her to come home.
I wouldn't worry about anything like that, you shouldn't want some guy who thinks he can impress you by staring endlessly at your chest/legs/whatever, thinks he can fuck ya n then fuck off. If there's someone you really like n he's worth it, you'll know about it :) We can't all be perfect, and in honesty, none of us are :)

As for your hair - I never really understand why girls get so caught up with their hair but I'm sure emergency hair dye and a lot of conditioning will help it out. Like lucie said, just wear a hat or soemthing to cover it. My hair's awful most of the time. Tbh I'm sure you could think of something to do with it to make it look less awful.


Sorry if this isn't helpful but I tried :) Good luck hun *hugglesqueeze*

[Sponge'K'nob]

Sorry to hear about your hair, if you liked it brown you should have what you like, not other people.
As for the guy thing, there are guys out there who like you, and going out with your friends will help you to find someone more than not doing.

Wanna chat, just message me on here on msn:)
I'd be happy to help
...I sound like I work at Asda or summat haha
Thanx Asda boy.
Ohh trust me, guys are a no go right now, everything I do or say just fucks up, so yeah. meh talk later x

Argh, don't remind me.

What's wrong with your hair? Wear a hat or a headscarf or something until you can go buy emergency hair dye, dark brown should hopefully cover it up if it's the colour.
=] Yeah I wore a hat today and drove to the nearest hairdressers, they didnt help me so went a bit further, booked in for 1 this afternoon so fingers crossed it will all go okay.

As to ya hair, it looked fine both brown and blonde tbh so don't go messin with it just cause other people have told ya to, have what ya want once ya get it fixed. :)

And as to the rest I can't really say much, always had that kinda problem meself and ya probs need a female shoulder to cry on anyways. :/
Haha thanx Boob, not letting anyone decide my hair colour ever again, right now I have "strawberry blonde"

Just reread thread again, didn't really give a good reply last night, was kinda half asleep.
I spend most of my time wishing I was better looking and that people noticed me. Whenever I go out with my best mate she gets pretty much 99% of the looks. I'm not even sure why to be honest but she does, she just has one of those faces that makes you like look twice at it, it's stunning. But I've my fair share of boyfriends and lovers and whatever, and I've been in love, and he loved me for me as well as how I looked whereas she has meaningless shags now n again while her bf sits at home waiting for her to come home.
I wouldn't worry about anything like that, you shouldn't want some guy who thinks he can impress you by staring endlessly at your chest/legs/whatever, thinks he can fuck ya n then fuck off. If there's someone you really like n he's worth it, you'll know about it :) We can't all be perfect, and in honesty, none of us are :)

As for your hair - I never really understand why girls get so caught up with their hair but I'm sure emergency hair dye and a lot of conditioning will help it out. Like lucie said, just wear a hat or soemthing to cover it. My hair's awful most of the time. Tbh I'm sure you could think of something to do with it to make it look less awful.


Sorry if this isn't helpful but I tried :) Good luck hun *hugglesqueeze*
Thanks, that was helpful it's nice when you break it down or whatever.
Tbh I usually never give 2 fucks about my hair, but this is realllll bad.
Might take you up on that offer of a chat.

[xMissIzzyx]

Thanx Asda boy.

Thanks, that was helpful it's nice when you break it down or whatever.
Tbh I usually never give 2 fucks about my hair, but this is realllll bad.
Might take you up on that offer of a chat. Anytime hon, anytime :)
Just had the biggest cry ever to my mum about everything n I feel a lot better now. Talking and talking just helps sometimes :)
Just let me know - if you wanna MSN, krazybabyizzy@hotmail.co.uk :) [Just add me anyway I'm bored of my contacts now :P]

[Pearson]

Whats happening! There seems to be loads of threads from regulars popping up with stuff like this, all of them just seem to be minor problems - but I suppose lots of small problems can be worse than one big problem! Chin up, Keep smiling, you'll laugh about it one day.

[Leon]

Thanx Asda boy.
Ohh trust me, guys are a no go right now, everything I do or say just fucks up, so yeah. meh talk later xYou're welcome haha
Ok, talk later :)

[Sponge'K'nob]

Just had the biggest cry ever to my mum about everything n I feel a lot better now. Talking and talking just helps sometimes :)

Yeah a good cry helps all

Whats happening! There seems to be loads of threads from regulars popping up with stuff like this, all of them just seem to be minor problems - but I suppose lots of small problems can be worse than one big problem! Chin up, Keep smiling, you'll laugh about it one day.
come on pea you know there's always SOMETHING wrong with me! ahh well.

Went to hairdressers at 1. It looks tonnes better and gave me back little bit of confidence, it's still not how I want it but better than this morning.

Thankyou all again, least thats one of my worries over..

[xMissIzzyx]

Least one thing's lookin up for you :)

[Jimbob]

Just add me anyway I'm bored of my contacts now :P

Pff, thanks :P

Hope your feeling better Kaye.

[Leon]

[Just add me anyway I'm bored of my contacts now :P]I did :D, gutted at Jimbob and who else Izzy had as a contact before, we've had a right laugh haha.

[xMissIzzyx]

Pff, thanks :P


Oh ssshh I have more contacts on my MSN than just you :P


I did :D, gutted at Jimbob and who else Izzy had as a contact before, we've had a right laugh haha. indeed we have!
whoever said it, was right, Leon really DOES cure boredom! *cheesy smile*

[sweet8060]

If a guy only likes you for your looks, then he really isn't worth it. :) As for the hair. So many things can be done with that. You can opt to wait a few days and re-do it, which runs the chance of frying your hair. Or you can choose to be different for a while,a few weeks, and then you can fix it which runs a less chance of you burning up your hair and making it all straw-like.