Gf Movin In Soon Need Some Advice Badly

[Danno]

right she lives in cardiff yet ive talked to her for like a year on fone , and now shes movin in afta spending four days down here , and like we wanna make it work big time and i dont wanna screw it up , can anyone give me advice on what to do to make it strong

preferbly with expriance behind urself :)

please i need this help bad :)

[~Wayne~]

Best thing to do is- Stay calm at all costs, its so easy to get wound up by little things other people do but just let it pass ya by :)

[Leon]

Yeah, like Wayne said, at first you may notice little things that bother you from living together, but just stay calm and things will work out:)

[Innamorata]

So you've only met her for four days and she's moving in?

[Fez]

you met her on the phone?
nice.. phone distant relationships.. they always seem to last long:rolleyes:
i say screw her on the first nite:popcorn:
that always seems to break the ice :naughty:

[xMissIzzyx]

You sure you wanna do this?
She's been there 4 days?
You can't build a relationship on 4 days of being together! Well, not one where you're gonna live together!
Did you talk about it beforehand or did she just decide to move in?
Seems like a huge massive step to me..
But the upside is she's obviously serious about you if she's willing to make such a big step. You need to be sure about this though. She's moving in with *you*. Don't spend all your time with her, keep your regular life going as it normally would, include her if necessary. If you spend every hour of the day together your relationship will fall apart quicker than the twin towers on 9/11.
As always I'm not gonna judge but I really hope you're sure about it and if you wanna make it work big time and she does too then hopefully it will last a long time :) Just be sure this is what you want sweetie.
Good luck!

[XBr0ken-$mileX]

have you guys ever seen each other before?
i say for the best thing, be confident with your self and trust your gut instinct

[Rashella]

Hmm maybe a trial run for a while to see if it works.

[d1ps3tb1rdgang]

i hate bad advice and thats what ive been reading. Listen moving in with eachother is a huge step it incoporates physical and mental aspects so listen you dont seem to sure of wether you actually want this, shell live if you wait alittle longer. and if she doeesnt then that means it wasnt meant to be. After a few months you dont know much about a person and your going to let her into your life?

[Innamorata]

To the person above: What the hell? Bad advice? Yeah....that's why two people who posted are agony aunts and uncles. Also just like to point out that you just repeated what other people have already said.

[Leon]

i hate bad advice and thats what ive been reading.

Listen moving in with eachother is a huge step it incoporates physical and mental aspects so listen you dont seem to sure of wether you actually want this, shell live if you wait alittle longer. and if she doeesnt then that means it wasnt meant to be. After a few months you dont know much about a person and your going to let her into your life?Nobody asked you to comment on other's advice. When you've made more than 2 posts, I might actually take note of what you say.

And you just repeated what others have already said as Innamorata pointed out so therefore your advice is just as bad.

[sarahgirl_88]

i dont have experience. but the best i can give ya is 2 say..
dont let the romance die. dont forget the lil things like kisses in the morning or holding her.. wen u fight. just stop. kiss her. its hard 2 maintain but if u wanna make it work. ull do just about anything.

[punkchickt18]

hey do what everyone else says if u really love her u shouldnt be worried about her moving in with you dude