Parents hate girlfriend

[g36calex]

Eh down to last resort asking about something, ok so i met this girl at a dance bout 2 weeks ago and we got along great i asked her out so on, then as we get to know each other i start to knows shes not as normal as everyone in the words of some of my friends, so it doesnt bother me and we start going out then one day i come home and my parents flip cuz somehow my brother figured out she was bi and told my mom who just lost it which is upseting to me cuz i like this girl alot, then the same shit goes on talking to my parents about her until my mom give me that crap about hows shes not going to interfer with our relationship(sarcasticaly) and that she had a bad feeling about this girl. Over-all down to wtf do i do...If i continure going out with her my parents will like shame me for awhile and ill just go on with another teenage relationship, but if i say cant go out with her becuase of parents I'll go back to my old pissed off violent self again...On top of that her friends are realy wierd all rich preps that have soemthing to say and can get in the way of our relationship...Im a lil confused and like idk how to get my parents off my back or what they dont even know her. Any help?

[xMissIzzyx]

Pretty simple, don't break up with her if you really like her. Talk to your parents and tell them that it's not fair for them to judge you and you're at the age when you make [and hopefully learn from] your own mistakes. If they don't accept that then they're just gonna have to learn to live with it. In all honestly the relationship will ost likely not last anyway, most "teenage" relationships don't.


As for her friends, if you mean anything to her they'll eventually stop interfering. [I mentioned this in gemski's post, read it]


My mum disliked most of my boyfriends, but one of them even moved in with me for a short period of time and she knew she had to learn to accept it. She told me she had bad feelings about him, and she was right, he was a total bastard, but it was my mistake and I learnt from it. Other guys I've been with it's worked out for a really long time and it was a really good relationship, and my mum knew I thought I was doing the right thing and she left me to it.

You'll be ok. Just do what you think is right in this situation. If you sit down and really think about it, your mind will eventually sync with your heart and help you come to a decision :)

Good luck x

[~Wayne~]

I'm lucky, my parents like Alice :P

[g36calex]

Tooo nice...lol Anyways it ended so w/e

[fraggled]

Tooo nice...lol Anyways it ended so w/e

Some people don't take hate to well :(

[Deimos]

If they don't accept that then they're just gonna have to learn to live with it. In all honestly the relationship will ost likely not last anyway, most "teenage" relationships don't.

That's pathetic, Parents should always have the final say until you're 18, then if you don't like it, you can either learn to live with it or leave.

[fraggled]

That's pathetic, Parents should always have the final say until you're 18, then if you don't like it, you can either learn to live with it or leave.

I have to kinda agree, parents know a little bit more then we do sometimes, they seem to have had more time to fuck up after all lol.

[Emmax22]

i think that its really wrong of your parents to judge someone like that. keep going out with her......its your life not theirs. prepare for the worst but hope for the best.

[Nintendus]

That's pathetic, Parents should always have the final say until you're 18, then if you don't like it, you can either learn to live with it or leave. So we should blindly accept authority from someone because they have more experience?

I can't see how the parents could not be considered in the wrong here. The girfliend and the family are not mutually exclusive things, the parents are just feeding off prejudice.

[Sweetest.x.Sin]

Ignore your parents. What they should shouldn't matter worth shit. I've been interested in alot of guys my parents did NOT approve of whatsoever, which was a few years ago. I still don't regret it even though they weren't for me. I was following my own intuition, I was being daring and independent, and that's how you gotta be, decide for yourself ynow?

[Deimos]

So we should blindly accept authority from someone because they have more experience?

I can't see how the parents could not be considered in the wrong here. The girfliend and the family are not mutually exclusive things, the parents are just feeding off prejudice.

You should blindly accept the authority of the people who have legal responsibility for you and pay hundreds of thousands of dollars to support your quality of life, if you do not like it, either learn to stfu and wait till you're 18 so you can leave, or go try get emancipated.