I cant get over him=(

[Emmax22]

i had been going out with my last bf named Jason for almost a year, and i was and still am sooo in love with him. i have never felt this way about anyone before. and we had such a great relationship and he always told me how he wanted to be with me forever. but then he all of a sudden told me that over the past few days he had been seeing this other girl and was fallling in love with her. i was soo heart broken and i couldnt believe it. i kept thinking what did i do wrong? i cant believe i trusted him and i cant believe i actually thought he loved me and cared about me. and he kept telling me he still loves me and always will and that he wants to take a break to see what will happen. and he begged me to be his friend and told me he didnt want me to cut him out of my life. and its been a few months and now he says he wants to stay with her and that we can never have what we had ever again. i am so heart broken and i have never felt this hurt before. i just want to get over him and move on, but its so hard and i cant. and no one undertstands.

[sarahgirl_88]

girl.. yea i kinda understand.. its hard aint it? ..
just try and start seeing other guys..
maybe its not the best idea that you guys
stay friends because it will be harder on u..
n if he tries 2 still be friends wit u.. tell him that
u want stay friends cuz its hard on ur feelings..

[Emmax22]

i have told him many times that i think its best if were not friends, because whenever we talk it just makes me miss him more. but he wont give in. so for awhile i just ignored him and we didnt talk for a few weeks, but i keep giving in and talking to him because i miss him. ughh.

[Menace]

Time erases everything...I wouldnt want to talk to someone who doesnt value me as much as I value em...strike him off of your life...its easy if you do it and start thinking of yourself only.

[xMissIzzyx]

I do know understadn how you feel n it's horrible. But honestly, you will get over it, just remember all the bad things he did to you and how he made you feel back then, and then think of all the other guys there are out there that would kill to be with you and wanna love you and be there for you :)

Good luck hunni. <3

[Jobi]

Totally understand you, altho im 3 years older than you and should know better! I fell in love, head over heals-he loved me, he made me feel like i was the most important thing in the world. He cheated on me and treated me like shit and chose a girl he'd never met over me.... but when she didnt want him he came bac... and i went bac only to be hurt again. 9 months later and I still miss him. He's over me, and loves some1 else, he thinks im over him and love someone else but im not. I'm so not. Its pathetic and i drive myself mad trying 2 figure out why i feel like this lol he was and still is a prick. He got back in contact a few weeks ago-id started 2 get over him but BAM he coes bac saying he misses me and wants to be my friend.... WTF???? It's stirred up all kinds of feelings and finding out hes in love with sum1 cuts deep lol.

Don't quite know what to do anymore.... maybe i will never get over him???? I must be having issues if im writing in a forum-its not my style but im so confused.

Dont spose any of you can help???? lol

[Rashella]

He's an ass. He shouldnt have put you on the sidelines whilst he tested some other chic, you deserve more respect than that.
And he loves her? I doubt it. Like he loved you? Said youd be together forever. Love lasts, doesnt get replaced when something else comes along. Just hope one day he'll fall in love for real and itl hurt him like hell.

[Sweetest.x.Sin]

Yeah, well that's guys for you.
He was seeing another girl, then he wanted to be your friend, then he tells you you guys will never have a relationship again. What does this tell you about him? That he's not trustworthy and he sounds like a real arse, so just forget about him.
I know it's hard, but try occupying your mind with other things and force yourself to think of something or someone else when he comes to mind, go out with other guys, and better yet just tell him to fuck off and cut him out of your life because he deserves it.
Sometimes the person you want the most, you are better off without.

[Guest2007]

Hmm.. this is why love sucks you put your all into a relationship and then they turn around and do this the main point is that you need to move on in order to make yourself feel better about yourself, when people get burnt by love they become a more closed person and build up a barrier try and stop this from happening, be more weary and do not trust people to easily xxx

[Emmax22]

thanks for all the advice guys!!!! i really needed it. and im not talking to him anymore. its really hard for me because i still love him. but i am starting to feel better about myself.

[Leon]

That is so...harsh...what he did.
You need to think about it in retrospect, now you know he can be like that, does he mean that much any more, and you're too good for him.
You need to try and keep yourself occupied with other things to keep him out of your mind, try and stay active:)

[toonz]

don't be foolish, he is just using you and playing with your emotions.
just leave him and please forget him.
a good way to forget your old love is to love someone else.
believe me it works.