Is She Just Flirtin Or Giving Me Another Chance

[COLTON]

First off
1)my ex broke up with me because I was a little klingie and told her best friend that she liked me but would never go back out with me again and her best friend told me she said that.
2)my exs best friend likes me
3)my exs boyfriend is one of my friends
ok. Now yesterday me and some friends went to the movies. I was sitting by my ex and one of my friends/my exs best friend tryed to make us hold hands a couple of times. My ex got up and went to the restroom. While she was gone I asked her best friend why she kept trying to make us hold hands. She said that my ex like me but she didnt want to cheat on her boyfriend again. about 2 hours into the movie my ex grabs my hand and holds it. i was confused because:

1)i thought that my ex wouldnt want to go out with me again
2)i didnt think she wanted to cheat on her boyfriend again

I like her alot but idk if she was just flirting with me or if she is giving me another chance. Does any1 have any advice on what i should do? Any advice will do(but if you call me a dumbass or sumthing like that i will tell you to go fuck off).

[xocherry-piexo]

well....
1.) if your ex's FRIEND who LIKES YOU told you that your ex said she'd never date you again, she probably just said that hoping you'd go out with her.
2.) there's always a possibility that she might be CONSIDERING giving you another chance. just give it a while and see how things go.

[COLTON]

well....
1.) if your ex's FRIEND who LIKES YOU told you that your ex said she'd never date you again, she probably just said that hoping you'd go out with her.
2.) there's always a possibility that she might be CONSIDERING giving you another chance. just give it a while and see how things go.

thanks. anymore advice would be well apreciated

[Emmax22]

yeah i agree. i bet her friend was just saying that because she wanted you to give up on your ex so maybe you would go out with her.
it seems like your ex still likes you but if i was you i would try to move on from her because theres no point in waiting around for someone when they have a bf and you dont want to cause problems in their relationship so just try and see what else is out there, and you never know....maybe your ex will realize what shes missing out on. =]]

[dev12692]

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[Leon]

I agree with Emma.

[COLTON]

yeah i agree. i bet her friend was just saying that because she wanted you to give up on your ex so maybe you would go out with her.
it seems like your ex still likes you but if i was you i would try to move on from her because theres no point in waiting around for someone when they have a bf and you dont want to cause problems in their relationship so just try and see what else is out there, and you never know....maybe your ex will realize what shes missing out on. =]]

i like her but i'm not exactly waiting up on her, i'm just curious. and thanks that helps a lot. i don't really need the addvice now but i will gladly take it for those of you who want to share your thoughts.

[Sweetest.x.Sin]

Sounds to me like she still has a thing for you and wants to see if you still have feelings for her still. Kind of sounds like she's giving you another chance, but I wouldn't pay any attention to it because if she has a boyfriend who she obviously doesn't love and is cheating on chances are she isn't a very loyal, reliable, great kind of person. She sounds like a slut.

[COLTON]

Sounds to me like she still has a thing for you and wants to see if you still have feelings for her still. Kind of sounds like she's giving you another chance, but I wouldn't pay any attention to it because if she has a boyfriend who she obviously doesn't love and is cheating on chances are she isn't a very loyal, reliable, great kind of person. She sounds like a slut.

I'd really like it if you didn't call her a slut. We may not be going out but we are still good friends and i dont want anyone making fun of her. Her best friend told me she was just being flirty. And even if she was giving me another chance I would want her to break up wid my friend and then wait a while to go out with me so he doesn't get mad at either of us because he is one of my good friends too.

[Kate]

Sounds to me like she still has a thing for you and wants to see if you still have feelings for her still. Kind of sounds like she's giving you another chance, but I wouldn't pay any attention to it because if she has a boyfriend who she obviously doesn't love and is cheating on chances are she isn't a very loyal, reliable, great kind of person. She sounds like a slut.

She does doesnt she.

[COLTON]

She does doesnt she.

Again I'd really like it if you didn't call her a slut. We may not be going out but we are still good friends and i dont want anyone making fun of her.