I hacked into his myspace...HELP

[PinkPanther22]

ok so heres the story. My BF flirts with girls who flirt with him. i HATE it. it bugs me so much. i have never met any of the girls...but yet it still really pisses me off. I know that him and these girls message alot through myspace. So, i figured out him myspace password and read the messages (i feel guilty for hacking in, but i felt like i had to). it was just as i thought...page after page of girls flirting and him flirting back. and its not like they randomly met. they go to his school (me and him dont go to the same school.) so how do i confront him about these girls? i cant let him know that i got into his myspace...so what do i do!?!? please please try and help!!!

BTW: he say's he doesnt flirt with them..."I couldnt, im a bad flirt"

[Shane]

Don't let him know you read everything or it's going to be you that's at fault.
I think you should use the info in them to your advantage to keep him loyal tbh.

[hommieegee]

Just, hit him full force.
Don't let anything go untold.

[PinkPanther22]

do you really think i should let him know i got into his myspace?

[Innamorata]

No, don't tell him. Just say you found out some other way. I'd give him a massive telling off and make him promise to not do it again, or I'd dump him.

[cupcake]

I think you should use the info in them to your advantage to keep him loyal tbh.
yeah, that is what i would do.

[Rashella]

Dont tell him you snooped, you already knew he was flirting before you just needed conformation. Tell him you dont like his flirting (dont mention myspace).

[mandude]

If you knew he was flirting before you hacked into it, surely you'd have some grounds to take him up on that.

[Jimbob]

Dump him?

[Kerry]

Don't let him know you read everything or it's going to be you that's at fault.
I think you should use the info in them to your advantage to keep him loyal tbh.
I agree.

[lucille]

Cuckoooo.

This is why I hate myspace. Stalking is made too easy, and polygamy is made quite impossible.

[Kate]

Sorry, but why the hell would you want to be with someone like that anyway?

[Jimbob]

Sorry, but why the hell would you want to be with someone like that anyway?

Seconded.

[Kate]

Its just common bloody sense.
Ewwwww @ him anyway.

[Leon]

Don't tell him, confront him about flirting with other girls if you say you already suspected him of doing, if he doesn't admit to it, then get rid of him. Because it shows he will clearly quite easily lie to you about something like that and he can't be trusted.

[PinkPanther22]

i dont want to dump him...i just want him to stop. so idk...what a mess!!

[Leon]

Yeah but reading your other thread he doesn't deserve you and is accusing you of doing exaclty what he is doing, and is therefore a hypocrite who flirts behind your back. Do you really want that?

[Sweetest.x.Sin]

If your boyfriend is FLIRTING with other girls it will esculate to higher grounds, because if he's going to forget you for all these other girls what else is he willing to do for these girls? Flirting is considered a class of cheating. Flirting is cheating's ugly cousin, and he's a cheater. Trust me I had a boyfriend like that once, he would always lie to my face I felt deep down I couldn't trust him no matter how much they say they love you and swear up and down they would never hurt you don't buy into it it's all lies you are better off without him he will only end up hurting you do what I did and dump him, and like mine no matter how much he begs for you back which mine does even though I shut him out of my life and get different nex pages to avoid him, he still does. Don't take him back because they never change, no matter how much they swear they have.
Yeah I would have deleted his My Space. I did that to my ex's nexopia. Hehe, oh I felt so brilliantly evil. :ninja*:

[Fez]

just mess up his myspace with some old... uh.. palestinian porn ;)

[Sweetest.x.Sin]

LOL
Fez I love your ass. You're a genius. :P

[canesgirl]

honey... if your boyfriend is flirting with other girls than theres a problem.. DUH!

you need to confront him or end it..
some guy that is looking at other girls is not worth you or your time