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xXxEmo_DaisyxXx
June 17th '07, 07:39 AM
Well..Where to start...at skwl there are two girl (lets call them G and M) well G and M and i used to be good friends in year 7 but half way thru yr 9 i fucked up big time..G's step mum was pregnant and unluckily the baby was born prematurly..and died..when she told me and M,for some unknown reason i smile as if i was going to laugh but didn't and then she thought i thought it was funny..which i didn't...then for about 2-6 months she gave me grief along with M but she wasn't the one giving all the mouth and all...but it eventually died down and we just grew apart....but M and me have still been friends but the ones that only talk in school an not much in commen...but still friends..but now latly we have been getting along fine because G's new friends are off ill....we talk about the funny things that we used to do and i want us all to be good friends again and hang out like we used to...but i dunno how?

Plus if we do become good friends again..is it gonna bring up old and touchy subjects like last time?
And do any of you maybe have a reason for me smiling at the new 0f a baby that has died?
Thanks all :fruit:

Rashella
June 17th '07, 09:53 AM
Hmm i dont really know about an excuse as to why you smiled. Is there an honest reason for it?

Its never too late to make friends again but your going to have to try really hard because G's going to be pretty angry to say the least. I suggest you casually hang around with her, dont force your company on her at first. See how she reacts. If she acts normal i think you'll be alright (By normal i dont mean inviting you around for tea parties i mean if she doesnt slap you straight away) as you can't expect her to want to be your best buddy immediately.

If you do pick up hostility you'll need to talk to her and tell her why you smiled, it'l have to be a pretty good excuse. Before you do try and make friends with her again id think of a reason as to why you smiled and maybe ask M what G says/thinks about you as a person now.

Innamorata
June 17th '07, 01:09 PM
Sometimes people smile or laugh when they're nervous or upset or something bad has happened and they don't know how to react.

xXxEmo_DaisyxXx
June 18th '07, 02:53 PM
Sometimes people smile or laugh when they're nervous or upset or something bad has happened and they don't know how to react.



that probebly why but i seriously have noo idea why i smiled it was like " i have bad news my step mum had to have they baby born too early and now its dead" then i looked at M and i smiled and still no idea why i did it

Rashella
June 19th '07, 08:54 AM
Tell her that, if she brings it up just say you have no idea why you smiled. But you didnt find the news funny.