Step Family your thoughts?

[iaxa]

what are your thoughts on step family. i hate my Step Dad he is fucking retard wanker of a fucktard. he trys to get to know me trys to be me father when i will only have one dad. he has lied to my mum several times and generally treats me like crap or like a little kid whenever my mum is not around. he trys to have a "play" fight we with me (if you could call it that) i said fuck off and he still kept on trying to ruff me off so i got him in a headlock and started beating the crap through his ribs he then punched me in my stomach then try the choke me (rather nice i thought) then i kicked him in the nuts and told him to fuck off then he went and bitched to my mum about it. i mean as much as i love her and all she has to realise that he is a fucking loser. Aside from this i have heard some really good things from step family. me i think most are just replacement wannabe family.

[xMissIzzyx]

I hate my stepfamily. But my stepdad was strongly physically abusive to me and my mother over the years and is still rather mentally abusive. He caused me more problems than I could have ever imagined, he's not good enough for my family and everyone except my mother can see that. My stepfamily are boring, judgemental and in general also not good enough for my family. He lies and manipulates and talks shit. In general, I hate him, but I haven't seen my father for years and I didn't get on with him much either. Still, he wasn't abusive to me and my mum had to sense to divorce him, not marry him after 3 years of being beaten up, and nearly killed twice.
So understandably, I stay well out the way in fear of what I'll do if I don't.
Bastards.

[Sponge'K'nob]

I don't have any experience personally with step family.
One of my mates at work, she is like 26 and has a 13 year old step daughter, the step daughter hates her as her real mum has spread shit about my friend. Which is a bit harsh as she is really nice.

[iaxa]

yeah it works both ways. something to do with the whole your dad that was there at birth will be your only dad thing i guess. like i will never in my right mind call rick my dad.

[lucille]

I don't like to call him my stepdad, but I really like my mum's boyfriend, he's lived with us for seven years and to be honest I'm just glad that my mum still has someone, and that my little sister has grown up with a father figure, seeing as my dad died when she was so young. And on top of that he is filthy rich so we get to live in a huge house and he buys me cigarettes.

[iaxa]

yeah thats whats a good side of step dads i mean it really depends on how they treat the child if they act like a real mother or dad i guess they are okay with me. but some are only there for the mum / dad and dont look after the kid. i cant stand that.

[lucille]

Oh no, I wouldn't be happy if he tried to act like my dad, we just act like we're friends, but I suppose I'm older so its different. He does do a lot for us considering he has his own kids to look after as well, which I do appreciate a lot.

Having said that, me and Richard have had some intense arguments in the past that I do not wish to remember, they just involved a lot of swearing and a lamp being thrown from my end.

[Fez]

My dad's girlfriend is a bitch. i fuckin hate her as hell. shes a fuckin cock suckin scum no good full of jizz ass hat. though i can't talk bad about her infront of my dad cuz he flips. although she cooks good. she cant drive shit. she crashed my dad's car one time. women can't drive. but she fails at eveyrthing else.

[xMissIzzyx]

I resent that. Women can drive just as well if not better than men.

[Bob!]

Never had any problem with mine.

Parents split when I was about 3 so I've got both a stepmum and stepdad.

Each side o the familly communicates and is on friendly terms but they mainly keep their distance, tis the same with me as neithers tryed to "take over" or replace me real parents, but still always treat me like their kid the same so tis always been reyt enough.

[tf_arl_90]

I don't really care for my step mom at all, but my step brother is ok. I've never met my other step brother.

I was never told my father remarried. I just got in the car one day and there was this guy sitting there, and was told he was my step brother. Would have been nice to know beforehand.

[iaxa]

I resent that. Women can drive just as well if not better than men.

god didnt you watch Borat girls have got smaller brains :P *runs*

hehe JK

[miren_spain]

I havent got a step father or step mother but i don´t want to have that experience. i´m sure that i wouldn´t like have one

[fraggled]

I liked my step dad but hated my step mom but I accepted her children as my brothers and sisters as they did me, we are probably closer then her and her own kids :\, my step dad raised me and treated me as his own, I called him dad and still refer to him as dad and my real dad I refer to as Sperm Donor although as he gets older he calls me more. My step dads daughter I never go on with because she was a total bitch.

[michelle]

i like my step dad we get on really well, my mum and step dad have been together now for about 11 years i think. i call him dad, i dont wanna know my dad he lives in scotland i hate him. but i dont really like my step dads kids they're all older than me and when i was younger used to make me cry. aprt from all that i love my dad (step dad) lol

[Forumfavorite]

I love my step mom, but I fuckin hate my step dad. He's the biggest ashole in the world. Whenever someone in my family came to visit me, after they left my step dad would say to me, they don't like you. They hate you. We're the ones who love you. Then if my mom did not do what he wanted, he would slap her and call her names. Then my mom got pregnant and had my little sister. My step dad would take me in a headlock and grad me and throw me against the wall. He may me bleed. Then one night my mom was standing with my sister holding her in her arms and my step dad was gonna hit her and I jumped in front of her so that my baby sister would not get hurt and I yelled stop! and he punched me in the face and gave me a black eye. Then my step dad and mom went to jail and I live with my Grandma now. My step dad is a piece of shit mother fucker.

[Caseabel]

I love my step mum, I wish my dad had met her sooner. I'd pick her over my biological mother any time, she's amazing - bit crazy but so's the rest of my family.

[oOoBubblesoOo]

i've been living with my step-mum for 5 years and I get on with her.There isnt any confrontation really accept sometimes she bugs me cos i ask a simple question which requires a yes or no answer..The next thing know I get a 30min convo about something i'm not intrested in. Oh and she talks on the phone for about 3hrs straight about really boring things imo. BUT Im used to her now and probably spent the same amount of time living with her then i did with my real mum..... I lived with my dad for 10years and obv.still do

[simply_unique]

I have a stepdad. We fight a lot. I have seen him hit my mom. We've had to run out of the house before , because my mom was scared of what he owuld do. He was throwing things, and breaking them. We went to stay at my aunts house,but of course we came back. I don't know what my mom sees in him,and why she keeps running back. My brother has also getten into fights with him.