Boyfriend Problems

[bribahbay]

I need my boyfriend to stop wanting to have sex everytime were together. I took his virginity, and now its like he always wants it. We have sex at least once everytime were together, any advice?

[Forumfavorite]

um let me tell you something about us guys. once we have sex the first time, we always want it. We are horny 24/7. Try to talk to him. hope that helps.

[Menace]

um let me tell you something about us guys. once we have sex the first time, we always want it. We are horny 24/7. Try to talk to him. hope that helps.

Chicks are just as bad.

[Forumfavorite]

Guess that's true (girls this goes for some girls none on this site) There are some really slutty girls at my school and on myspace, but we can save that for another thread.

[Menace]

Lust > Mind. :D

[Nintendus]

Just tell him, not much else you can do to save his feelings.

[Kerry]

Talk to him.

[*Jess*]

Yeah, all you can really do is talk to him, because there is no other solution. He may not see that he's only having a sexual relationship rather than a loving one you want to have.

[Dani_x]

my boyfriends same, soon has we started sleeping to gether that was it- he wanted it every chance he could! Now im fed up of it in a way so he doesnt get it at all

[Leon]

Stop giving in to him and and having sex every time you see him.
If that happens every time you see him he's only going to expect it to happen every time isn't he.
It takes the both of you to have sex, so you're partly guilty for it.

Just say no.

[gemsy]

just tell him how u feel.
if he carrys on like this then just say no. he cant force you into it unless u let him.

[bribahbay]

thanks for all your help with everything. Im gonna give the ideas a chance with him, and hopefully it works. I just dont want a relationship based solely on sex.

[Menace]

I just dont want a relationship based solely on sex.

Of course, foreplay is a must!

[bribahbay]

so what did you do about it?

[Menace]

:dupe:

[Leon]

thanks for all your help with everything. Im gonna give the ideas a chance with him, and hopefully it works. I just dont want a relationship based solely on sex.Then stop giving in and having sex every time you're with him then.

[LittleMissJolie]

I need my boyfriend to stop wanting to have sex everytime were together. I took his virginity, and now its like he always wants it. We have sex at least once everytime were together, any advice?


omg my bf is exactly the same... but I'm going to tell him that sex is off the agenda for a while because I want him to prove to me that our relationship isnt all about sex to him... but it's up to u what u do babe xxx

[Leon]

omg my bf is exactly the same... but I'm going to tell him that sex is off the agenda for a while because I want him to prove to me that our relationship isnt all about sex to him... but it's up to u what u do babe xxxThat's good :)

[Sweetest.x.Sin]

Guys are always horny but it sounds like that's all he wants. I think you should talk to him about this if it's bothering you and if he gets all frustrated and keeps asking anyways you should just dump him, because someone who only wants that isn't worth waiting around for. Really.

[ShutMeUp-x]

You really have to talk to him.
That's exactly how my last relationship failed.
He had had sex once before, I was a virgin but after we first had sex we had it ALL the time, about 2/3 times everytime we met up.
It was great at first but it felt like that was all our relationship was about, even though we both loved each other. It wasn't so much he only cared about sex, but we never did anything else and it started to get to me.
Instead of talking about it, I finished with him but regretted it for ages afterwards [and kinda still regret it now, about 2 months on].
Try and sort it out with him, if you care about him and he really cares about you then you should be able to talk about it with him.