Horrible dreams

[Darts]

I keep having horrible dreams about my boyfriend leaving me, and they seem real, so I have to really really fight to convince myself they're not when I wake up. Last night it was so real that when I woke up and went back to sleep and dreamt of something that was different in most ways, the idea that tom had left me for another girl stayed the same. I don't want to have to dream this anymore.

[Kate]

Tom's still with you in real life though isnt he? If he wanted this girl, chances are he wouldn't be with you, but he is.
And tbh, he looked more than bloody smitten with you on Friday night. *gets jealous of Tom* :P

[Leon]

Aww, don't worry about it Cherie, it's only a dream, you're together still :D

[Bob!]

Yer fears will often manifest in dreams, and losing something ya value will always play a big part o that, tis natural and should hopefully go away once ya don't fear it as much.

Ya could reassure yaself by talkin about it o course but that could cause some awkwardness, depends on how ya are, but instead I'd say everytime ya feelin like that, jus have an uber extra cuddle the next time ya see him and ya should hopefully feel better then. :)

[Darts]

Aye I feel better already, I'm not worried about them coming true but its the dreams themselves I don't want. Thing is I have realised that I need to treat life as if nothing bad will ever happen, have more confidence in myself and other people and stop suffocating people out of fear. Some of you may recognise what i just said from somewhere else lol.

[Bob!]

Ya msn name I think hehe.

And aye its good to be ready for the worst just incase things go that way, so best to keep guard up some but, don't let that block out other things. Its what I've done all me life and tis why I'd been the same fer so many years, true I'd got by but I'd not enjoyed anythin outa it either.

An as ya said thats what ya need to do, know that ya can be ready if owt bad does happen, but don't treat it as if it will, and the dreams ya cant do nothin about so best thing ya can do is jus ignore em, dont let em hang over ya, an get on wi enjoyin yasen as much as poss. Then the dreams will probably go away by themsens. :)

[Darts]

They happen every so often, but oh well never mind I suppose bad dreams are a part of life, they can't all be good

[Bob!]

Exactly lol.

Its the life thats reality ya need to concentrate on, and I'm sure that proves ya dreams totally wrong. :)

[Sweetest.x.Sin]

That's no good to be afraid of losing your significant other because it can happen and when or if it does happen you have to be ready and prepared to take it on and be single again, be ready to take on the world on your own because there's alot of other guys out there mostly assholes but there's some good ones out there.
Maybe you're so afraid of losing your boyfriend you keep concentating on this dream that's why it keeps re-occuring in your subconscious re-playing itself because you're too focused on it and so it plays itself again while you are sleeping.
Just stop thinking about it because dreams aren't reality so nothing to worry about.

[Jimbob]

Tom loves you to bits.

[xMissIzzyx]

I'm sure Cherie knows that he loves her.
As above sweetie, don't worry about it. You'll be fine, everything happens for a reason either way, and sometimes dreams show things that are representing something else in your life so it might be something that's nothing at all to do with your relationship with Tom, and in fact something completely seperate in your life.

[Darts]

Nah I'm not actually worried about losing Tom. I mean I don't take him for granted or anything, I'm thankful for every moment I'm with him. Most of the time :P But yeah it's only the dreams that make me feel that way.