A bit of a dilemma im in....

[crashnburn2722]

ok, me and this girl have known eachother for about 2 years now. she doesnt know this, but ive had an on-and-off crush on her for almost the whole time i've known her. we started talking more personally about 6 months ago, and our friendship got a lot better(in my opinion anyway). we started playing stupid little games with eachother, and she punched me in the arm every time i won, and i think she even started to trust me, something which is hard to get her to do.

shes been there for me through a lot, from a few times where ive been dumped to all the times i cried because of friends leaving and moving away, and just through days where i wasnt in the best of moods, and my feelings for her grew. 2 months ago, i finally admitted i liked her, but not to her, to one of my guy friends. she lives about 10 mins away from here by car, but i talk to her on AIM almost every night. i want to tell her so bad, but every time i try i end up wussing out, which makes our convos very awkward for a few mins after. this is prolly becuz she told me once that guys telling her they like her kinda wierds her out.

i dont know what to do, shes going camping until friday, which gives me some time to put a gameplan together, but i dont know what to do. if anyone could help me out, i mean just like telling me how to lead her into a situation where id be able to say it, or maybe a way i could say it, id really appreciate it.

~joe

[*Jess*]

Your sig disgusts me person above. Thats just disgusting, nobody will take you seriously with that.

And I'd say the only way really is to tell her, admittedly I can't talk about that because I'm too scared to even phone work to ask when my shifts are, but you need to seeing as you like her so much. The worst she can really do is say no, but also if she does seeing as she seems to like you in a friendly way so much she wouldnt be mean about it. Just build up the courage, write her a message if your doing it online maybe or prepare something to say if your going to actually talk to her about it and then you'll have time to perfect it and you can say what you want to say, and encourage yourself to say it to her.

[*Jess*]

LOLZ Omgz So Funneh!!!!!!!!!!!!111111111one

:rolleyes:

[Forumfavorite]

Just tell her. I've been in a situation like this before. If you tell one of your friends to tell her you like her, then she'll think you don't like her that much to tell her. Do you understand?

[crashnburn2722]

yeah, i get what you're saying. i cant really send her a message becuz she never checks her email and her myspace got deleted. ill prolly just do what jess said and take some time to perfect what ive got to say.