Question for guys

[LittleMissJolie]

but girls with past experience can answer too...

How can you tell if a man is with you for love or if he is using you for sex?

Libby x

[Leon]

He wants sex every time he sees you maybe.

[LittleMissJolie]

yes but that doesnt really tell you whether he loves you or not... he might want sex all the time to show you how much he loves you... people just assume that if a guy wants sex with a girl all the time it means he is using her.

Surely there must be some other signs.

[mandude]

...he might want sex all the time to show you how much he loves you...Sorry, but I don't think that ever happens.

I'd agree with Leon.

[*Jess*]

I agree with Leon.
Not like I'm a guy but you know.
:D.

Plus, if he says he loves you and stuff and tries to connect emotionally with you instead of just physically.

[Leon]

He may want to have sex to show his love, but then he would show his love all the time in his other actions, and it would be more passionate.

[LittleMissJolie]

I dont know... he is very passionate and stuff.... and he kisses and cuddles me a lot too... it's just communication that we struggle with tbh.... thats what makes me doubt him... we dont talk enough... it's a bit like there's a barrier between us or something as far as talking goes... but it feels amazing when he kisses me and it does feel right being with him... I'm so confused... Maybe it's just me being paranoid or something... creating a problem that isnt really there..

Thanks by the way xxxx

[Leon]

Like I said in my reply to your other thread, communication is key.

[by evil coke]

If he loves you he should probably be talking to you more. He may not realise he's using you. Its just that he may not be in love with you.

[?????????]

He wont talk to you much and just at as if u werent there, but when he wants sex he'll be falling over you-hope this helps