Emo Or Not

[Bleeding-dagger]

im kinda emo like (hence my name) but is the anything better in life for me than slitting my wrists cause ive got no hope at all for life plz help....

[*Jess*]

Look, how do you know there is no hope for life?
You're still young, whats actually wrong with you?
There is way more to everyones life than slitting wrists.

[Bleeding-dagger]

i dont kno
it seam the only way 4 me

[*Jess*]

Well it isnt.

[Bleeding-dagger]

ur probly right bit if there is another way i cant find it

[angel1]

Of course there are better things in life then slitting your wrists. You are to young to give up on life, I know things might suck for you right now but just give it time and things will get better. :)

[Bleeding-dagger]

u girls are probly right but so far i dont see it getting better

[*Jess*]

You're 13 though.
Its not like you have no life left, or no changes that are going to go on in your life.

[Bleeding-dagger]

change like what?

[Rashella]

u girls are probly right but so far i dont see it getting better

Well you won't, its only been an hour. And in that time you havent been trying to improve your situation i bet. Youve been stewing in it.

So your life isnt perfect. From what ive made out from other posts the reason you've been cutting your wrists is because you can't get a girlfriend and you keep getting detentions. Are you fucking kidding me? Get a grip. You could stop feeling sorry for yourself to start with. Things could be so much worse. By rolling over and feeling sorry for yourself your just sat there waiting for things to get better? You think good things just magically appear and make your life brilliant? Of course not, you have to work for them. You have everything to live for and no reason to commit suicide.

[Bleeding-dagger]

hey take that back you dont know what ive been thro!!!!!

[angel1]

You will meet different people and do different things, your life wont always be the same. If there is something in your life you are unhappy with and if it is possible to change it then do so. :)

[Rashella]

You dont know what ive been through either. The only reasons you have given and said are the reason for cutting your wrists have been pathetic.

My life is far from perfect.

[Bleeding-dagger]

maybe but its really hard

[Rashella]

Its never hard enough to just give up. Theres always something to go on for. Even if you can't see it yet.

[Bleeding-dagger]

thats the prob i can never see it

[*Jess*]

maybe but its really hard

I know people including myself who have had many family members die, had many troubles in life other than that but not once have they seriously wanted to kill themselves.
It may seem 'hard' to cope, but life is far from hard if you just accept the idea you have no choice to change it and death isnt something you can just play around with.

[Bleeding-dagger]

i never said i wanted 2 kill myself i just said i wanted the pain 2 stop, and ur right life probly isnt hard but 2 me it is but this is helping

[Rashella]

thats the prob i can never see it

You won't see it if you carry on the way you are, instead of dwelling on all the bad stuff look for the better things, there are always people who care about you. Try too see the bigger picture not the shitty edge of it. You can make a good life for yourself but your going to have to put some effort in to it, not hope it'l come to you eventually. Good things have to be worked for. Instead of the time you spend cutting couldn't you be doing something better? Like doing school work to stop the detentions and improve your future? Or spend time with friends and maybe meet new people and girls? Cutting your wrists doesn't make it better at all. Sure the pain might go away for a few hours but then its back and it hurts just as much.

[Bleeding-dagger]

grr some times i h8 u lot you always seem 2 be right o well ill try 2 stop if i can i promise

[Rashella]

Good. The first step is knowing you need to stop. And if you ever need people to bitch at you and remind you how silly it is, we're here :) Good luck im sure you can do it.

[Bleeding-dagger]

ok thats i good ideaa ill make a thread 4 u lot 2 fucking swear at me 2 stop

[angel1]

Sometimes in life what some people find insignificant can be catastraphic to someone else. every once in a while everyones life becomes mundane but you just have to keep going and look for positives :)

[Bob!]

ok thats i good ideaa ill make a thread 4 u lot 2 fucking swear at me 2 stop
Thats the wrong approach.

Instead of full on relying on others, look at yaself and use what ya have to make an attempt at solving ya problems, asking for help or advice is fair enough but expecting others to make ya put an end to it without taking the initiative and doing anything about it yaself is exactly the reason ya are like ya are, theres only you stopping yaself from attaining whats good.

And to that you would probably say, "But I have nothing!"

Which would be incorrect, you have a mind and a body do you not? They are the only tools ya need to make a start at very least.

Other people can help ya realise ya situation and offer advice and outline ya options, but only you can solve yer own problems that yer either creating or preventing the solution of by doing just that, expecting em to magically go away instead o doing something about em yersen.

[Bleeding-dagger]

i will i promise and will try 2 keep it i may be a fucking emo but i keep my promises

[Bob!]

Then, stop being a fucking emo and itl all be fine as then yall have removed exactly whats stopping ya from solving it all, which is pinning yaself down into a sterotype to try and give it all an "identity", which just keeps ya in the same position, and makes it worse.

Understanding a problem is taking it for how it is and then immediately working o na solution or at least the best possible path of dealing with it.

[Bleeding-dagger]

okay i promise (as a fucking emo) that i will do my best 2 stop.

[Kerry]

I agree with Bob.
Also, all Emo's don't cut..

[Bleeding-dagger]

i kno but i never said they did

[Kerry]

I know, it was the:

i will i promise and will try 2 keep it i may be a fucking emo but i keep my promises Like you were relating them all with cutting.
Meh, might be just the way I seen it. ;P

[Bleeding-dagger]

it was my falt and urs i related 2 them abit and u saw it the wrong way

[Kerry]

Yeah. :P

[Bleeding-dagger]

okay gd we're clear

[Kerry]

Yep.

[Bleeding-dagger]

arr all better and i feel starngely calm as usualy ican only think about bad things

[Leon]

Why do you slit your wrists anyway in the first place?
What reasons do you have?

[adam_smith]

Why do you slit your wrists anyway in the first place?
What reasons do you have?

I would also like to find out why your life is any diffrent from anybody else on the forum

[Leon]

From what I've seen since I made that post I agree where Jess said it just seems to be a bit of attention seeking, as nowhere at all has a reason been giving for cutting, and at every chance he says he cuts and then calls himself emo for it, then makes a post saying he never said cutting was emo.

All seems a bit silly to me.

[Bleeding-dagger]

I feel gr8 2day and i dont feel like slitting my wrists sooo...
im not going to. - do u lot kno y i feel better than before??

[Kerry]

do u lot kno y i feel better than before??
No, why?

[Kate]

I hate people like you.
Please go fall in a deep hole and never surface again.

[Bleeding-dagger]

F*ck off im stopping if u had read all of the thread

[VampyrMaggot]

I hate people like you.
Please go fall in a deep hole and never surface again.

secondedage! (Y)

[Leon]

You don't stop cutting over time you idiot like you can smoking or something.

As long as you cut you're still a cutter.


So stop now and if you're not going to shut up about it.

[Bob!]

The lil tards banned now for being needlessly abusive to members in another thread, he obviously has no potential in life whatsoever.

Feel free to discuss the topic though if ya will. :)

[Hayle_Ann08]

ok..i must say that i have been in ur position at ur age and i know how it feels..although i never went so low as to slitting my wrists i actually thought about suicide...all i have to say is that God has a better plan for u...things always get better...and yeah, this time will probably haunt u as u get older bevause my depression still haunt me 4 years later...u don't have to have hope for life to keep living and NOT slit your wrists..in my eyes that's just stupid...just use music or friends as an escape...that's what i did...my friends help me out ALOT.. a time like this is when you find out who your TRUE friends are..i'm not makin this shit up..trust me things will get better..it might take a while, but it will get better...it took me a year to get out of my depression..sometiems, it's somebody you meet...in many ways, everything happens for a reason...i met a guy named Oran who helped me...she showed me what life was all about...maybe you'll meet somebody, i don't know what your story will be..but it can only get better....and trust me, life gets harder afer u trun 16....

[Hayle_Ann08]

From what I've seen since I made that post I agree where Jess said it just seems to be a bit of attention seeking, as nowhere at all has a reason been giving for cutting, and at every chance he says he cuts and then calls himself emo for it, then makes a post saying he never said cutting was emo.

All seems a bit silly to me.


ALL EMO IS IS ATTENTION-GETTING!! THEY TALK ABOUT HOW HORRIBLE THEIR LIFE IS SO PEOPLE WILL FEEL SORRY FOR THEM!!! UGH I HATE EMO!!! (no offense dude)

[Hayle_Ann08]

F*ck off im stopping if u had read all of the thread



honestly, me and my friend don't think you ever started.......HMMMM!!!.... :puke:


cause i mean, all emo people do is find ways to get attention..ECK! :puke:

[Nirvana_rox]

cause i mean, all emo people do is find ways to get attention..ECK! :puke:

Not allways man.
A LOT of my friends are what you'd probly class as 'emo' and they aren't attention seekers.

[adam_smith]

ALL EMO IS IS ATTENTION-GETTING!! THEY TALK ABOUT HOW HORRIBLE THEIR LIFE IS SO PEOPLE WILL FEEL SORRY FOR THEM!!! UGH I HATE EMO!!! (no offense dude)

i agree totally that why sorted my life out before i lost all my freinds that was a dark time and to think i made ir worse by actin into a sterotype

[Bob!]

Aye I get ya, which is exactly what he should have done instead of thinking it gave him the right to act his age and shoot his mouth off at people in other topics for no reason around the forum in a section that specifically states "No flaming members!", hence his current status. Obviously some people learn from their mistakes, others do not. :P

Edit: Just to clarify, it was for other reasons and posts in other threads that resulted his banning, this thread had no bearing upon it, just shows another example of his immaturity.