phantom13
July 29th '07, 06:15 AM
My relationship with my girlfriend has becoming steadily more kinky. She kinda likes pain, like first she started biting me when we made out and stuff, and then there was me pinching her, and so forth. Also she started asking permission for really weird things, like, is it okay if I go to the bathroom (at her house) or can I eat my leftovers while we watch the movie. Eventually she would do things to annoy me, and I would get her back, and when it was something that turned her on (like me slapping her ass) she would do it more. After awhile we kinda had a set of 'punishments' for different little things, without ever really planning it that way. Whenever I am going to do something like that she complains a lot, but she has one tone of voice when she actually doesn't want me to do something and another for when she isn't serious (she told me this straight out).
I realized that our relationship is more kinky than normal when today (after her licking me) I turned her over on my lap and spanked her. I thought that might bug her, but then she started one of the more intense make out sessions we have had. Later she told me that she didn't want me to spank her, but she had really enjoyed it....? So I was just wondering if anyone has any experience or comments on this, or if anyone has any ideas of things we might try.
We don't do anything that is actually dangerous or would cause any real pain, and I assure you I would always stop if she told me to, there is no abuse here. She is older than me.
I realized that our relationship is more kinky than normal when today (after her licking me) I turned her over on my lap and spanked her. I thought that might bug her, but then she started one of the more intense make out sessions we have had. Later she told me that she didn't want me to spank her, but she had really enjoyed it....? So I was just wondering if anyone has any experience or comments on this, or if anyone has any ideas of things we might try.
We don't do anything that is actually dangerous or would cause any real pain, and I assure you I would always stop if she told me to, there is no abuse here. She is older than me.