Need help with a choice

[midge]

Hey

for the sake of this thread my name is midge, my girlfriend is vegie, and my mates are ezzy and ota-not real names

OK well I have been going out with vegie for 1 month and 5 days and her best mates ezzy and ota are very close to me and i love all of them. Now though Vegie has been ditching ezzy and ota, because of an arguement about vegie going on a diet even though she is underweight. So now vegie is best mates with ezzy's sister.

I'm stuck in the middle between mates and girlfriend

I have to make a decision on what to do but i don't know what.

please help me
midge

[JC.]

You can be friends with all of them, just coz 1 dont like 2 and 7 ate 9, dont mean that you have to stop talking to any1, if they try to make you chose, tell them grow up simple

[Leon]

I agree, you shouldn't have to choose, you can still be friends with them all, you've done nothing to them.
If any of them try and make you choose they're being childish and tell them to grow up.

[throcks]

They should grow up, kick in their face lol!
You can still be friends..why not?

[Daniella™]

They aren't good friends if they make you choose because you should be able to be everyone's friend.

[Sweetest.x.Sin]

You should talk to her about this and tell her she could become anorexic if she is already underweight and wants to go on a diet. She definitely doesn't need to if she's underweight as it is and her mates are just concerned and that's why they argued over it because they don't want her to because friends who really care wouldn't want her to.
I don't know you can stay friends with all of them and try to talk to her about this. She might listen to her girlfriend better than she listens to her friends.

[*Jess*]

To me it seems much deeper than this. The problem she has with her weight seems to be a self esteem issue which could turn serious and become an eating disorder, especially when shes falling out with people over it.
They shouldn't fall out with each other over this diet. Her friends really need to be there to support her as it seems like shes having some issues with her weight. You shouldn't choose between them. Your girlfriend needs you but you can hardly just abandon your friends. Talk to each party seperately about it. Tell your girlfriend how much you care about her, but before that talk to the friends and tell them you can't just leave her. Especially when she's like this. The friends will understand and even if they do not, its immature of them to make you choose and they will learn it the hard way.

[Daniel]

You can always be on all sides of the field.

[Will1206]

Lol 7 ate nine thats good....
buy yeah i say u should tell her not 2 cause it will be bad 4 her and tell ur m8s 2 stop being so childish...
My Cookie! No mine get off! i want it! lol soz couldnt resist

[Jasper]

AGH.. I wish all the names weren't so similar.

I'm lost o.O

But yeah, follow your heart .. or something.

Sorry, I'm hopeless.

[Stefan]

"Midge".
The most important thing in my life, is my girlfriend.
Put her before everything else.
If your girlfriend does not like you talking two her two "ex"-mates, then just talk to them online, without her knowing.
Even when your just passing by at school, just say hi, and let them know that you aren't avoiding them.
If by this you mean if you should choose between those two and your girlfriend, then pick her..
If you want to leave her because of it, do.

Remember, if she dosen't mean everything to you, she might aswell be nothing.

>Stefan, hope I helped (Y)

[Jasper]

"Midge".
The most important thing in my life, is my girlfriend.
Put her before everything else.
If your girlfriend does not like you talking two her two "ex"-mates, then just talk to them online, without her knowing.
Even when your just passing by at school, just say hi, and let them know that you aren't avoiding them.
If by this you mean if you should choose between those two and your girlfriend, then pick her..
If you want to leave her because of it, do.

Remember, if she dosen't mean everything to you, she might aswell be nothing.

>Stefan, hope I helped (Y)

No no no.. Friends are way more important than whoever you happen to be dating at the time. Although, you'd have to ask yourself if the friends you met through her are worth jeopardise your relationship . . .

Hmm..