Confused a bit

[ThePartner]

Hello, ive decided to visit these forums after finding them recently.

i am 15 from Manchester and i have been Very good friends with this girl for a couple of years and ive liked her for both two years, and just in the last 2 months Shes been sayin to her friends that she likes me etc, and so now we have been goin out for a while but now our friend relationship has totally fallen apart, She seems to hang around with other people now, Not as much with me? what should i do to get that back Weird i know

[JaeSwift]

Just ask her if she can spend more time with you. When you started going out did you both stop talking about each others problems? Like you would do when you was friends? Just try talking to her about it, take it slow though.

Good luck buddy.

[GotToHaveNeo]

Id have to agree with Swift, talk to her, ask her if everything is alright and if there is a problem talk it out cause if you dont, it could end messy and then you might not only loser her as a girlfriend but also as just a friend

[Loneaway018]

If she trys and closes you out..try and smooth talk her into telling you the problem...

[~Wayne~]

If you do spend too much time with each it could make things worse as you don't wanna 'smother' each other constantly, people need space. Still ask her why she doesn't much anymore.