Advice on kissing

[Gary]

hia all , can u guys give me some advice about this..
i have been going out with my girlfriend now for just 2 or 3 days, and as stupid as this sounds how should i first aproach to kiss her or should i let her make the first move? i have known this girl for a long time now, How and when / where should i ?

[Sponge'K'nob]

just do it spare of the moment thing, best that way, not planned or anything, she may like that...can i ask how old you are??

[Guest]

14 :x .

[Bob!]

If ya hesitant then jus sit wi her cuddled up or whatever, and gradually move close, if she also moves closer, to the point wher ya nearly touchin anyways then, she'll want it. So just gradually move in to start it and see if she does the same, if she does then go fer it lol.

[Gary]

I am 13 nearly 14 and tbh neva had a real girlfriend who i like this before and would feel rather stupid kissin her infront of m8s, kinda hard to get her on her own :\

[Bob!]

Aye I get ya.

If ya want a special first kiss wi her than try and invite her round to urs, or go to hers, or just anywhere where ya sat alone. The cinema is also a very good place.

[Sponge'K'nob]

go to her house or something, or ask her round to yours, watch a bit o tv or something

[Bob!]

Just sujject goin sumwhere or doing something thatd be a special treat, which would mean only you and her would be there.

A day out sumwhere, the cinema, or anythin lol.
She'll probably be happy to kiss ya if ya give her a good day o enjoyin hersen.

Just depends whether ya want to do it on the spur and casual, or a hesitant intimate kinda moment lol.

[Sponge'K'nob]

just go out and fuckin do it whenever, gawd dunt av to be 1 kiss only, dont be shy, just go for it

[Bob!]

Aye its only that startin bit lol, once uve got past that then its no problem.

[*Jess*]

Maybe do it when you are saying goodbye.
Or something.
Or on the first date just randomly approah her when you feel the time is right and move closer. Believe me its like a connection, but you both know whats gonna happen.
then when you kiss it will be all natural and you will wonder what the fuss was all about.

[Pearson]

make sure she's ready for it, you dont want to end up in a kiss-cuddle limbo, were you just end up shaking her! by the way that was on just friends. It was quite funny.

[-Snake-]

Dont she may get pregnant :P

[Bob!]

Greg, be serious in the advice forums please :P

[-Snake-]

Sorry, Hold her hand, make sure shes comfortable n make sure uve had a good night and kiss her at the end of the night. I think like bob said hugging, cuddling and lots of eye contact in the end im sure ya can pull it of kidda ;)

[Bob!]

If ya both want it then basically its like a magnet lol, keep movin em closer an closer an eventually theyll jus snap together.

So aye just go for it, ull be fine. If she pulls away then leave it be, but theres small chance o that, she'll probably just go with it, then ya can enjoy it :P

Just go for it and let us know how it goes :)

[Stephanie]

Okay, so post all your tips here because I seriously need all the help I can get!!

[Brianna.]

Haha...there really is no foolproof way to kiss. Just do what you feel is right. You can't learn how to kiss or anything. It's just instinct.

[Shane]

Using your lips is the best way to start off. :P
But yeah, just go with the flow. :P

[RyThEm]

do it under table in skool lol

[BrittanyMarie]

Lmao I Agree! Once You Get Past The First Time Then You Wont Wanna Stop.....lmao!