Giving head.

[sExC_PriNcEss]

Heyyaa... well im new here n well i just wanted some advice on giving head jobs. i have done it but want 2 be great at it.
so guys tell me wat u lyk n girls tell me wat u do!! THANKS... princessxoxo

[Bob!]

LoL, I'm sure ull get enuf practice. :rolleyes:

But anyways since ya askin, heres a handy lil hintlist I posted in the girls forum. :)


Top 10 Worst Blowjob Mistakes


Teeth

The number one blowjob mistake: letting your teeth hit his cock. We can't stress this enough. Ask any guy and he'll tell you again and again: nothing is worse than a blowjob that is "all teeth". In fact, most guys won't admit it, but their idea of a perfect blowjob would be getting sucked off by a gorgeous woman with removable dentures. Teeth can nick and scrape the sensitive skin of the penis. Open your mouth wide enough that they stay away from his cock, or suck your lips in over them to cushion the rough edges. If he's wearing a condom during the blowjob this may provide a slight buffer, but don't count on it.


Going too fast

Some guys enjoy a quickie, but unless they're in a hurry to get back to work or back to their wife/girlfriend, most men like to savor the experience of getting their cock sucked. So don't rush them. It's not a race to see how fast you can get him to spurt. Take your time and make it last. Concentrate on different parts of his penis, or his balls, then go back to basic sucking and stroking. At the end of a luxuriant BJ session, he'll blow a much larger, more satisfying load.


Sucking too hard

Hoovering him like a dustbuster may seem like a good idea in theory, but there's a wrong way to do it. Don't fasten your mouth around the head of his cock and suck like you're trying to get a triple-thick milkshake though a straw. Guys' dickheads are the most sensitive part of the penis, and uncut guys are even more sensitive there. The proper technique to hoover is to take more of his cock into your mouth and apply moderate suction.


Crushing his nuts

Don't grab his balls and squeeze like you're trying to crack walnuts. This is a move you want to pull on a would-be rapist, not a guy you're trying to get off. It's painful. Many guys like to have their sack rubbed, licked, or gently tugged during a bj. You can even take a break from sucking his cock to take one or both of his balls into your mouth. But don't yank on the family jewels, and don't put them in a vise grip.


Barfing and gagging

Throwing up while giving a bj is definitely a turn-off, although sometimes this happens to the most well-intentioned cocksuckers. What happens is they get overenthusiastic, take the cock too deep or hard into their throat, the gag reflex gets triggered, and then it's all over. Or once the cum starts hitting the back of her throat, things start flowing the wrong way. Don't try to deep throat on your first BJ. Everyone will be sorry. Practice first on dildos to get your gag-reflex under control. Or just work up to it at your own speed.


Remaining immobile

Putting his cock in your mouth and then doing nothing is as bad as overdoing it. Most guys don't want to feel like they're face-f*cking a cadaver. You need to work it at least a little. A total lack of effort or enthusiasm on your part is a real buzz kill. If you don't know what to do with your tongue, at least bob your head. After a while, he may want to take a more active role and have you relax while he f*cks your mouth, but you need to give him a little encouragement to get him aroused.


Not using enough pressure

Wimpy blowjobs are no fun. Be firm and suck him like you mean it. Lapping his dick lightly will just make him feel teased. Licking his dick like it's a lollipop or popsicle may be fun to get warmed up, but then you have to get down to business. Use a firm (but not too firm) hand to work the shaft of his cock, while you get your mouth all over his knob and caress it with your tongue.


Spitting

Most guys want you to swallow and think that a BJ really isn't complete until his load goes down your throat. The only exception is if he gets off more on spraying it on your face, tits, or somewhere else. If you really don't want to swallow, this can be an acceptable compromise. Symbolically, swallowing shows that you accept him and his manly essence fully. Although we can't endorse unprotected bodily fluid exchange in any form, if you happen to be giving an unprotected blowjob (i.e., without a condom) and you end up with his spunk in your mouth, do not retch his cum into a wastebasket in front of him. If you really feel you must spit, do it discreetly into a towel or tissue.


Dry mouth

A good BJ involves a lot of saliva. Don't be afraid to get a little sloppy and drool on his cock. If your mouth is dry from nervousness or whatever, there will be too much friction and stickiness to give good head. If your mouth is dry, drink some water and rinse. Try to work up a good mouthful of spit before you go down. Suck on a hard candy to get your juice flowing, or suck on an Altoid to give him a mentholated BJ.


Stranglehold

Don't put his cock in a deathgrip. It's fine to wrap a hand around the shaft, but don't clench and for god's sake, watch the nails. Just hold it enough to keep it from flopping around and shuck his pole with your hand while you work him with your mouth, his dick shouldn't have a handprint on in when you're done.

[Bob!]

I'll also add the handjob one since I'm sure you'll be doing some of that as well. :)


Top 10 Worst Handjob Mistakes

A handjob should be one of life's simple pleasures, but it often ends up as little more than a chafed disaster. Here are some tips to avoid common handjob pitfalls. Print out this list and keep it next to the sofa or tape it to the dashboard of your car.

Doing it dry

If you don't want a sore, red, inflamed cock after all is said and done, use some lube. Unless you have extraordinarily soft skin or are a maestro of the cock fiddle, rubbing a dry cock will just make it raw. If you don’t have any KY Jelly or hand lotion handy, you can at least use the natural bodily fluid most readily available: saliva. As long as you can work up a mouthful of spit, there’s no excuse for a dry handjob.


Unrelated chatter

Focus on the task at hand! No chatting on the cell phone with your friends or musing about dinner plans. Permissible topics of discussion include: how huge his cock feels in your hand, how wet he is making you, and how desperately you want him to come all over your face.


Fingernails

Long, pointy, or roughly cut fingernails present a handjob hazard. They can poke, scrape, pinch, and gouge if you’re not careful. Accidents are most likely to happen when you’re moving too fast, so if you have long nails, take it slow and be careful. Fingernails can be used to good effect if you use them very lightly to caress or tickle his cock and balls. Using the backs, not the tips or edges, is recommended. If you’re not sure what you’re doing, don’t try, just keep them out of the way.


No rhythm

In order to be pleasurable and build arousal to a climax, a handjob should have rhythm and continuity. It’s best to start slow and then steadily increase the pace till he pops off. Don’t stop and start or speed up and slow down randomly or for no reason. Once you start a handjob, you really have to keep at it until it’s over, or you lose the momentum (and he’ll lose his erection). Keep your hands on his dick, and keep them moving till he comes.


Limp grip

When you shake hands with someone and their hand feels like a limp, dead fish, it’s creepy and unpleasant. Now imagine how it would feel to have that hand on your dick. Definitely not a turn on. A weak grip conveys lack of confidence, lack of enthusiasm for the job, or just downright distaste about touching a cock. It’s even worse if your hands are also cold and clammy. A weak grip combined with lackluster movement is the kiss of death for a hand job. Grasp his cock firmly (but not too firmly – see our next item) and stroke vigorously (but not too vigorously).


Vise grip

Grabbing his cock in a death-grip is also a huge handjob mistake. A light but firm grasp is adequate. Remember, “choking the chicken” is just an expression. Putting a stranglehold on his cock is counterproductive. Also, while it can feel good to have the outer skin of the dick pulled back and forth over the shaft, you really need to move your hands over the surface too - don’t just grab one spot and start jerking up and down.


Wearing rings

This is a no-brainer. You need to take off your rings before you give a hand job. They don’t “add sensation” – or they do, but the wrong kind. Rings can scratch and bump the delicate skin of the cock. They’re distracting. And they can get caught in his pubic hair. Needless to say, if you’re wearing a wedding or engagement ring, this goes double.


Nut crunching

Unless he specifically says that he likes it rough, don’t squeeze, pull, or twist his nutsack. This can be painful. Many guys like to have their balls massaged, rubbed, or gently tugged during a handjob. But don’t grab them and knead them like a stress-ball. A light touch is best.


Smoking

Smoking during a handjob is the kind of thing you might expect from a cheap hooker with a bad attitude, but don’t be surprised if you also encounter it from a party girl wasted on too many Slippery Nipples. In any case, we can’t emphasize this enough: Cigarettes and handjobs do not mix. Guys, don’t ever let anyone holding a burning object anywhere near your crotch. Smoldering ashes in the groin, scorch marks on the dick, blazing pubes - the potential for tragedy is just too great.


Not Cleaning Up After

A good handjob should leave your man glowing in a state of relaxed post-ejaculatory bliss. And it will also leave a mess, gobs of jism, lube, and pubic hair. Keep a hot, wet towel at the ready, or at least a tissue, to clean up afterwards. Nothing will ruin his good mood more than having to deal with the aftermath himself.


There ya go, good luck and I hope its useful to ya, be sure to let us all know how you deal with your dilemma. :)

[Luke]

Don't forget to clean up after love :)

[Bob!]

Thats already covered forest, look above :P

[Luke]

Thats already covered forest, look above :P

There goes my attempt at a joke then!

Why would I want to read it? Not planning on sucking dick!

[-Snake-]

haha my gf should read this...

[Luke]

haha my gf should read this...
Harsh O_O

(Filling up minimum characther space)

[claire]

lol i hate giving head but me bf makes me!, but yeah Bob seems to have covered everything what you should and shouldnt do.

[Luke]

lol i hate giving head but me bf makes me!, but yeah Bob seems to have covered everything what you should and shouldnt do.

You can always say no.....

[NATAL!E]

Apparently something like 75% of women don't like giving oral sex.

Though to be perfectly honest, the idea doesn't seem that appealing to me. Lol.

If I was with a guy I really trusted, I'd tell him beforehand that I wasn't exactly enticed by the idea. If he was considerate enough he wouldn't make me do it. Though, I'd probably say "No.". I mean, there's no point in doing something like that if you're not going to be comfortable and happy with it.

Well. Not in my opinion anyways..

[-Snake-]

Meh, sex isn't about what ya like its about making your partner feel good.
If ya don't like it and ya do it shows ur commited....

[Luke]

Meh, sex isn't about what ya like its about making your partner feel good.
If ya don't like it and ya do it shows ur commited....

Nah mate. I agree with Fender.

[-Snake-]

In life ya do things ya dont like, like walking the dog or the washing up thats the way it is, I give oral sex to my gf not fun but she seems to love it so why the hell not...

[Mikhael]

im afraid only 25% of men only give oral sex :-s btw bobeth i heard u posted something like that:-))

[Luke]

In life ya do things ya dont like, like walking the dog or the washing up thats the way it is, I give oral sex to my gf not fun but she seems to love it so why the hell not...

If you tell her you don't like it though, she'll probably make a compromise.

[-Snake-]

If you tell her you don't like it though, she'll probably make a compromise.

yeh but she likes it, I don't mind as long as she's enjoying it I will do it.

[NATAL!E]

You're right Forest. Lol.

I mean, if people love their girlfriends/boyfriends, then they're not going to want you to do things, even if they like it. Because it's unfair. At least, they should make a compromise.

Plus, sexual experiences aren't just about doing things to make other people happy, there's a big part about you learning and experiencing things for yourself. And to be honest.. Sex shouldn't seem like a 'chore' - Such as doing the washing up..

[~Wayne~]

If I forced sum1 I'd probably feel bad :O

[Bob!]

LoL @ the big discussion goin on here :)

Anyways yeah, I put on it that it was posted in the girls forums, I just thoguht it appropriate to be reposted here :D

Also as to the discussion, no one should be forced to do something they dont want, as nat said its comprimises. Yeah when ya love someone, you do things for them, but not ones that make you unhappy, because if the other person loves YOU, they shouldn't want you doing anything that makes ya unhappy.

[Pearson]

There goes my attempt at a joke then!

Why would I want to read it? Not planning on sucking dick!

lmao that med me laugh!

Yer, If your partner dunt want to give you oral then you shunt mek her really!! its a bit wrong, if were being honest. But greg does have a point, if you care for someone alot and they like you to do summat your going to want to do it even if you dont like it.

[-Snake-]

lmao that med me laugh!

Yer, If your partner dunt want to give you oral then you shunt mek her really!! its a bit wrong, if were being honest. But greg does have a point, if you care for someone alot and they like you to do summat your going to want to do it even if you dont like it.

Thank you!
She doesn't know i don't like it soooo its ok beacuse she duznt feel like shes "making" me. Oh well dumpin her at the weekend anyway LOL!

[claire]

Well its not that i hate it, it just aint the nicest thing in the world, and he doesnt exactly make me, he always asks for a blow job n I feel obliged to give him one to make him happy! N i know what he'll do for me in return lol.

[Bob!]

Well thats the comprimise lol.

If ya dont like it that much, but dont mind it then, nothin wrong wi doin it then.

Its just if ya really hate doin it, then ya should say no lol.

[claire]

lol ooo i would! but in a relationship I think compromises in every way is one of the most importants things!

[Bob!]

Then thats fair enuf then as what you say is true lol.

LoL @ this topic :P

[claire]

lol, its interesting, as alot of girls struggle to give good head!

[-Snake-]

haha damn right lol @ topic

[NATAL!E]

Lol. It is a bit of a silly topic. But when you think about it, a lot of people are worried they aren't good enough, or worry about the whole experience, especially as teenagers. Some feel they are inferior to others, because they haven't done things like their friends etc.

So I guess it's a way to talk about it with other people - Boys and girls. Haha.

But yeah, the general ideas of this topic are right. Compromises are needed, but if you don't mind and like the .. 'rewards'.. Then carry on as you wish. But doing something because your boyfriend/girlfriend tells you to, if you don't like it, is out of the question really, because it's unfair if you don't really want to, but feel forced.

[danni4kevin]

well givin head aint de worst tin evr. i sed no 4 nine months den realised it wernt as bad as i was makin out just listen 2 wat bob sed den u mite b sum where.

[Mamfy]

But there's no way you would let someone boss you about and make you do things you didn't want to do in the outside world. So there's no reason why people should be aallowed to force you to do things sexually that you don't want to do.

[SuFiJimmy]

ive read that advice stuff before (yeah i looked it up, i wanna be able to do it good). i used to be like apprehensive about that, but when i finally sucked it up, ha sucked, it actually wasnt bad

[RyThEm]

guna email them tips 2 me gf coz she n her m8 was talkin about spitin on cock other day lol. was askin me wots best n that...

[Guest]

My bf say I am GREAT!! And gets of more then once everytime!! Ask him what I am doing right! I have never got complants on my blowjobs!!

[OrgasmicDeath]

Yeah, just make sure your mouth is good and wet. I, personally, love sucking dick.. I know lots of girls who hate it though.

[God.]

LOL!

I can read deleted posts blacklollys....

:D:D:D:D:D:D:D

[Tami]

lol this makes me all more inthusiastc to do it, pity i have no guy to do it to :(

[Pearson]

Yeah, just make sure your mouth is good and wet. I, personally, love sucking dick.. I know lots of girls who hate it though.

O_O

[OrgasmicDeath]

O_O

What??

[God.]

Probably his come face.... :P

[PrincessAlice]

ahhh how can you see it ???

[God.]

I'm a supermod. :D

It shows me deleted posts if I wish. :D

[PrincessAlice]

haha damn lol oh well i don't mind :D

[God.]

You should restore it.

It makes good reading. :D

[PrincessAlice]

nah nah :p

[God.]

Wuss. :P

[PrincessAlice]

haha damn right i am

[Brianna.]

I've been asked for head alot since I got my tounge pierced...it's annoying.

[CraigYohn!]

all I saw in this thread was compromise this, compromise that, well I'll spill my pennys worth on this





69 FEELING FINE!


omfg, chaos theory, bingo IS good for somethings then

[Lindsay]

i don't really mind giving head. the only thing i HATE is when a guy pushes your head down into his crotch. I fucking hate that.

[CraigYohn!]

i don't really mind giving head. the only thing i HATE is when a guy pushes your head down into his crotch. I f*cking hate that.


yeah, me too :(

[Mamfy]

Haha. Wouldn't knoww.

[orlando lover]

LoL, I'm sure ull get enuf practice. :rolleyes:

But anyways since ya askin, heres a handy lil hintlist I posted in the girls forum. :)


Top 10 Worst Blowjob Mistakes


Teeth

The number one blowjob mistake: letting your teeth hit his cock. We can't stress this enough. Ask any guy and he'll tell you again and again: nothing is worse than a blowjob that is "all teeth". In fact, most guys won't admit it, but their idea of a perfect blowjob would be getting sucked off by a gorgeous woman with removable dentures. Teeth can nick and scrape the sensitive skin of the penis. Open your mouth wide enough that they stay away from his cock, or suck your lips in over them to cushion the rough edges. If he's wearing a condom during the blowjob this may provide a slight buffer, but don't count on it.


Going too fast

Some guys enjoy a quickie, but unless they're in a hurry to get back to work or back to their wife/girlfriend, most men like to savor the experience of getting their cock sucked. So don't rush them. It's not a race to see how fast you can get him to spurt. Take your time and make it last. Concentrate on different parts of his penis, or his balls, then go back to basic sucking and stroking. At the end of a luxuriant BJ session, he'll blow a much larger, more satisfying load.


Sucking too hard

Hoovering him like a dustbuster may seem like a good idea in theory, but there's a wrong way to do it. Don't fasten your mouth around the head of his cock and suck like you're trying to get a triple-thick milkshake though a straw. Guys' dickheads are the most sensitive part of the penis, and uncut guys are even more sensitive there. The proper technique to hoover is to take more of his cock into your mouth and apply moderate suction.


Crushing his nuts

Don't grab his balls and squeeze like you're trying to crack walnuts. This is a move you want to pull on a would-be rapist, not a guy you're trying to get off. It's painful. Many guys like to have their sack rubbed, licked, or gently tugged during a bj. You can even take a break from sucking his cock to take one or both of his balls into your mouth. But don't yank on the family jewels, and don't put them in a vise grip.


Barfing and gagging

Throwing up while giving a bj is definitely a turn-off, although sometimes this happens to the most well-intentioned cocksuckers. What happens is they get overenthusiastic, take the cock too deep or hard into their throat, the gag reflex gets triggered, and then it's all over. Or once the cum starts hitting the back of her throat, things start flowing the wrong way. Don't try to deep throat on your first BJ. Everyone will be sorry. Practice first on dildos to get your gag-reflex under control. Or just work up to it at your own speed.


Remaining immobile

Putting his cock in your mouth and then doing nothing is as bad as overdoing it. Most guys don't want to feel like they're face-f*cking a cadaver. You need to work it at least a little. A total lack of effort or enthusiasm on your part is a real buzz kill. If you don't know what to do with your tongue, at least bob your head. After a while, he may want to take a more active role and have you relax while he f*cks your mouth, but you need to give him a little encouragement to get him aroused.


Not using enough pressure

Wimpy blowjobs are no fun. Be firm and suck him like you mean it. Lapping his dick lightly will just make him feel teased. Licking his dick like it's a lollipop or popsicle may be fun to get warmed up, but then you have to get down to business. Use a firm (but not too firm) hand to work the shaft of his cock, while you get your mouth all over his knob and caress it with your tongue.


Spitting

Most guys want you to swallow and think that a BJ really isn't complete until his load goes down your throat. The only exception is if he gets off more on spraying it on your face, tits, or somewhere else. If you really don't want to swallow, this can be an acceptable compromise. Symbolically, swallowing shows that you accept him and his manly essence fully. Although we can't endorse unprotected bodily fluid exchange in any form, if you happen to be giving an unprotected blowjob (i.e., without a condom) and you end up with his spunk in your mouth, do not retch his cum into a wastebasket in front of him. If you really feel you must spit, do it discreetly into a towel or tissue.


Dry mouth

A good BJ involves a lot of saliva. Don't be afraid to get a little sloppy and drool on his cock. If your mouth is dry from nervousness or whatever, there will be too much friction and stickiness to give good head. If your mouth is dry, drink some water and rinse. Try to work up a good mouthful of spit before you go down. Suck on a hard candy to get your juice flowing, or suck on an Altoid to give him a mentholated BJ.


Stranglehold

Don't put his cock in a deathgrip. It's fine to wrap a hand around the shaft, but don't clench and for god's sake, watch the nails. Just hold it enough to keep it from flopping around and shuck his pole with your hand while you work him with your mouth, his dick shouldn't have a handprint on in when you're done. WOW!!!!!!!!! THATS SOME GOOD ADVICE!

[Angela_Sleeping]

Reading those made me feel so good about my blowjobs :)

[ib0b]

Maybe for most people those are good, personally I don't fully agree with any of them, especially the first, one time I was bitten (lol) and yes, it did hurt a little, but it was so amazing and I loved it.