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JoePal
September 3rd '07, 01:30 AM
Its true. Shes sweet and pretty. And faithful. Everything i want. But its just shes a little sheltered i guess. Like shes almost 19 and she still acts like shes a freshman in HS. For example her mom called her in sick to work the other day. And she does this like "ditzy blonde" thing. Hard to explain, just anything she'll play stupid rather than talk to me. Its weird. but those are just pet peeves. She also doesnt talk to me. We've been dating for over 3 months and it still feels like the first few weeks of a relationship. Like she doesnt talk to me or let me in on personal stuff. Basically i know nothing about her. And she'll never give me her opinion about anything. Even little things. Like what movie to see. Even when she does have an opinion she'll say "i dont care". But then when i decide on something she'll go "Do you really wanna see that?" which really means "I dont want to see that, keep choosing until i agree". And this is all stuff i've brought up to her, and she gets mad, saying I'm mean. But shes got great qualities too. Shes really nice. And takes care of me. Would do anything for me. And shes definitely faithful, i have no doubt in my mind about that. But I think I wanna break up. But its like things are good. But they're not going anywhere. I dont know. I've never had to break up with a girl. And I know she's gonna cry and thats gonna kill me. any advice would rock. thanks

Leon
September 3rd '07, 07:45 AM
Why don't you explain to her how you feel, that you feel as if you're not getting to know her at all.

<<Mini-Grim>>
September 3rd '07, 08:42 AM
I agree with what Leon said. Talk to her about it. :)

Sweetest.x.Sin
September 3rd '07, 11:28 PM
She'll cry or maybe she won't but even if she does, hey tough shit get over it shit happens life goes on and that's the bottom line.
If you're not happy in this relationship and it's not going anywhere and you can't seem to take anything anywhere with her, then obviously the relationship is just going to stay like you don't have a relationship really in the matter.
Breaking up would be the best thing you can do because if you don't like your girlfriend then you shouldn't have gone out with her in the first place. That's why you get to know people and their personalities well first before jumping into relationships. People get hurt otherwise.