Best friend situation

[Lost<.<]

Okay so heres the thing, I have liked my best friend for about 2 years now, and have never had the guts to tell her. She has heard from friends i do but has always shrugged it off so i have left it well alone. well i thought i was recently over it untill a couple of months ago she got a boy friend. i dont know what to do now coz i do like her still but no i can't be with her.

[strike]

Well to be honest, I think people that cant tell a girl that they like them doesnt deserve to be with that girl, unless you are really shy. Wel now i rate your chances are slim but it will be important for you to tell her ASAP. its the only way.

[del girl]

i dunno, i'm sorry to confuse u but i disagree...
1 i don't think ur any less of a person for not tellin her how u feel and i know the pitfalls and that they can lead to a broken friendship... i've just told my best friend how i feel and now he will hardly look at me :(
2 maybe nows not the time to tell her cos she's got a boyfriend and if she likes you ur time will come no worries :D

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[Wacko1574]

god ...frindship between a girl and a boy so i have learned can never happen......well normally i would say go for it...cuz i thnk its cute and u will always be wondering of wut could have happened......but now that i know wut its lyk :(....u gotta ask urself are u willing to take the risk of ruining ur frndship......because if u lose her frndship....u would be in the future sayin...if i didnt


so the simplest way to put this is wut would u choose for ur future wut could have happened or wut if i didnt?? that is the question u got to thnk through :P:P hope i was of any help :D:D

[Monkey]

Friendships between boys and girls CAN happen and they do. My bestest best friend is a boy and he's more like an older brother than a best friend.

Aaaaaanyway, if i was you at the moment i'd continue with being a great mate as she has a boyfriend at the moment so even she wouldn't say yes even if she does like you.

If she DOES break up with whoever he is then consider whether risking your friendship (and it is only a small risk in my experience as most friendships fix themselves). I reckon you should go for it if she suddenly becomes single. Perhaps be a shoulder to cry on...

Good Luck!! xxx

[God.]

My best friend who's a girl is also my fiancee.

It does work sometimes.

[emmybabyyx]

Now that she has a bf, it's harder to get closer to her. Still remain friends with her but don't get in between the relationship by now telling her that you like her. It could make things very difficult for her on her part seeing as she has a bf. Give it time.

[lilmissnisi]

i've had these friends who were in the same situ as you. they brok up now, but their friendship's still the same cos they grew up together. he got another girlfriend but she just shrugs it off cos she knows that he's always had been a bro to her. who knows, maybe if she does brake up with him, you could get in there with a chance but at the mo, just be friends with her and be there for her when she needs you. that's all you can do really. hope that helps.

[Sweetest.x.Sin]

Well if she's shrugged it off and has a new boyfriend now, chances are she doesn't feel the same way.
You'll eventually find someone else so I think you should try your hardest to ignore these feelings so you can get over her soon.

[BigGuy2007]

I know what you're going through. I'm head over heels for my best friend. Just look out, because sometimes there's rough patches were you may fall out because of it. So, it's up to you how you go for it.

[cs_dude]

Be a bit careful where you tread with this one, me and my best freind developed feelings for each other and one thing led to another, now its sometimes a bit awkward and the sexual tension can cause a lot of arguments,we are still close but once you cross that big white line there is NO going back.

[Innamorata]

Yup, haven't regretted becoming more than best friends. Doesn't work out for everyone though.


My best friend who's a girl is also my fiancee.

It does work sometimes.

[adam_smith]

going out with your best freind is not always a good idea
ive just gone threw kinda the same thing,
its taken about a month to get back on proper speaking terms and cos shes my best friend she expects to talk about other boys to me which hurts alot
so just stay best friends its better that way

[ChasingTipitina]

When a girl drives me crazy like that, I have to get away and spend some time in solitude. I take a couple days and not talk to anyone. I read, run, draw, and listen to music; do anything to take your mind off the situation. After that time, I find I can really think about the situation clearly and I usually have made the right move afterwards.