View Full Version : What should i do about that cheating bastard?
BloodyFaery
October 4th '07, 12:25 AM
I'm in my first relationship and he is cheating on me. He does'nt know that i know. I'm so hurt and confused. I dont know why he's doing it and i dont know what i should do. I love him but he's hurting me. This has really fucked up my perspective on love. What should i do?
Leon
October 4th '07, 12:34 AM
How long have you been together?
VraiCanon
October 4th '07, 09:52 AM
Get rid of him
No-one deserves to be messed around.
Then again, how are you so sure?
Ask him to tell you STRAIGHT how it is.
WatchSkins
October 4th '07, 09:38 PM
Dump him - thats the only thing to do, NO-ONE deserves to e cheated on, with any luck he will learn not to do this again - maybe try talking to him on a one to one (to face) basis and see if you can resolve it, if you want to work on the relationship?
Alex
del girl
October 6th '07, 01:01 AM
o dear this is the time old question of what do u do when ur bf cheats!
well it seems to me that first u should figure out how much u care. do u feel as if u can't live without him? do u think u'll miss havin someone around but not nesscarily him?
the thing is u'll get more respect from ur peers in the long run if u dump him now for the reason he's cheatin on u. altho i no what it's like to be blinded by affection for someone and not want to let him go and feel utterly in love with him. if this is the case i suggest mind games. i no it's probably unethical and shiz but tis excatly what i would do... kill him with disapointment. dump him... do not go on a break with him what ever u do, shows ur weak and are giving him an allounce to get off with others which gets rid of any respect he had for u. stand ur ground, say "if u don't want to be with exclusively me thats fine but we're broken up thats all". say it dead calm with no reservsation in ur voice and it'll make him go nuts!
to conquering men!
love adele
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NZM17
October 8th '07, 03:29 AM
Go and cheat on him so its even. Or you could invite the other girl into your relationship so nobody misses out on having a good time.:naughty:
Menace
October 8th '07, 12:14 PM
He sounds unstable...tough luck.
del girl
October 8th '07, 05:31 PM
don't cheat on him... thats just amo for him for later
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^*^*stacey*^*^
October 8th '07, 05:39 PM
get him into bed and the snip oops
byebye dick *hahahah* :D
or just tell him yoo know and see what he has to say
but i like the first one betta :D
Kate
October 8th '07, 06:01 PM
Tear off his balls and post them to the bitch he's cheating on you with.
Sweetest.x.Sin
October 22nd '07, 01:59 AM
Dump his ass.
He's not worth your time, and trust me, he may swear up and down he's not or swear up and down he'll change but they never do, it's all just an act so don't fall for it.
Sure you love him, but he obviously doesn't love you very much if he is cheating on you with no regards on how this will effect you, and it already has but I garuntee you he wouldn't give a shit.
Dump him.
Lynn
October 23rd '07, 04:04 AM
This same thing happened to me.. you need to confront him about it and see what he does.. for me he broke up with me and went out with the other girl for about a month.. he then realized that he missed me and i forgave him because i believe people deserve second chances. we have now been going out for almost 3 years and everything is perfect.. and he knows what will happen if he cheats on me again.. basically you need to talk to him
monearth12
October 23rd '07, 03:57 PM
Dunb him...he is nothing....
Kerry
October 23rd '07, 03:58 PM
Dump, dump, dump! He's a piece of shit. :|
Also remember, not every guy is like him, so don't let it change your view on love too much. :)
BlueDecember
October 26th '07, 10:26 PM
Seduce him then just as it's about to happen, grab him by the balls and scream in his face that he's dumped. Then throw him out, and if he refuses to leave, phone the police and tell them he's stalking you.
lucille
October 26th '07, 11:01 PM
Been there.
Not worth it. Don't do anything over-dramatic, don't be bitter, don't try and make him jealous, just keep your dignity and walk away. Nothing is better than the feeling you get a few months later, when you think to yourself "what the fuck did i see in him?'
ashleyxkilljoy
November 23rd '07, 01:07 AM
ugh, guys like that are
such douche bags.
dump him and don't
take him back! you
deserve wayy better
than that! (=
Leon
November 23rd '07, 07:25 PM
ugh, guys like that are
such douche bags.
dump him and don't
take him back! you
deserve wayy better
than that! (=Sexist comment.
ashleyxkilljoy
November 23rd '07, 11:06 PM
Sexist comment.
lol, i said guys whoare like that
are douche bags. hmm, might i add
that girls who hurt guys are evil
bitches who deserve to die. (=
ugh! i can't stand cheaters! and, if i'm
sexist at all, then i'm sexist
against girls...my own gender.
Leon
November 23rd '07, 11:32 PM
lol, i said guys whoare like that
are douche bags. hmm, might i add
that girls who hurt guys are evil
bitches who deserve to die. (=
ugh! i can't stand cheaters! and, if i'm
sexist at all, then i'm sexist
against girls...my own gender.
Firstly, obviously you don't know me enough to tell how I'm feeling with some posts, and secondly well said.
I think I misread it anyway, thinking it said 'guys are like that' rather than 'guys like that are', sorry if there was a misunderstanding.
ashleyxkilljoy
November 25th '07, 01:44 AM
get him into bed and the snip oops
byebye dick *hahahah* :D
or just tell him yoo know and see what he has to say
but i like the first one betta :D
ohhh wow. yu know, there
was a woman who actually
did that to her husband...
so cruel. )= oh man, that
would be like cutting off your
clit. >.< owww! )=
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