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Demigod
October 20th '07, 03:57 AM
Okayy, so this is the situation...

I had a crush on this guy named Daniel, but now him and my friend Katherine (we're not really close, sort of the ''hi, bye'' sort of friend) started going out with him. They seem pretty content right now, so obviously i'm not going to be a hoe bag and try to break them up or anything. The thing is that it seems as if he likes me back, and a lot of my friends think so too because they always catch him looking at me. And now, i have a feeling that katherine notices it too because she started talking 'bout how girls shouldnt hook up with any of their friends ex's no matter what. But, i still do like him, and i still wanna be friends with katherine, but i dont want him to be hitting on me if i know i cant go out wid him, and now i'm in a really akward position and its REALLY stressful.. >.<

Wacko1574
October 20th '07, 08:15 AM
started talking 'bout how girls shouldnt hook up with any of their friends ex's no matter what.

pffffft obviously she worried abt it....if u two are jst hi frnds...then dnt see y she has to interfere in ur life.....and abt daniel....maybe he should stop fooling around and set his mind on one chick.....and you dnt have to do anything....if he likes you...let him suck it up and tell you jst that :D:D

not a good advises but hope it helped xD

Rashella
October 20th '07, 10:12 AM
Hmm try to ignore it. If you confront him and he doesn't fancy you, you'll look a bit stupid, and if he does, then if he breaks up with Katherine to be with you, well you said it really "obviously i'm not going to be a hoe bag and try to break them up or anything."

They are happy together, he's taken i'd try and move on as theres nothing you can do which will cause a whole bunch of trouble.

Leon
October 20th '07, 05:28 PM
Well the thing is if he tries to hit on you then why is he going out with Katherine anyway, if he likes you instead then I'd just ask him why he's going out with her instead.

For now just ignore it.

Sweetest.x.Sin
October 21st '07, 02:28 AM
That's good, and I have high respect for you that you are not some douchebag who steals other people's significant others because that is a dispicable, disgusting thing to do and I have absolutely no ounce of respect or appriciation whatsoever for scuzzbags who do that, so I'm glad you are not a disgusting person like that.
But secondly, with your problem, if they are content but if he is still looking at you he might think you are a very attractive girl but he has a girlfriend who is also your friend sort of, but either way he's taken so you have to move on with your life and find somebody who is single.
And if his girlfriend is being all uppity about it, tell her to buzz off and you don't intend to steal him away or anything. It's not your fault he's coping a look.