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bballbabigrl
February 13th '06, 07:33 PM
what should I do?
I really like this guy whom is my friend too.. we have a lot in common which is good. I play jv basketball, and he came 2 a few of my games. I went 2 one his games to. I am confussed. I talk 2 him on the phone sometimes and we have a good conversation, and we have fun together. when we are in class, sometimes, he will be like lookin my way and we meet eyes but then turn away. but sum times when I know he is lookin at me I just keep lookin forward. Is so that wrong? or like in the morning, I have 2 pass by his locker 2 get 2 my locker and if he is at his lokcer, he is talking 2 sum1, but he will stop and look at me walking down the hall. I smile, sum times he smiles back. like today in class, we have a chance to do what ever at the end of class, and he kept walking past my desk and finally came over and we talked(flirted some), then he left and I talked 2 sum other people, the I went over and he sat back down, so I went over and we started to talk sum more and flirt or what eva.then like when we are goin to class, we will joke around and flirt a little. he is so nice. the way he smiles, his style, his laugh, the way he talks... It is so irresistable. http://www.golivewire.com/images/emoticons/blush.gif what should I do??? http://www.golivewire.com/images/emoticons/happy.gif
thanx for ur post in advance

Bob!
February 13th '06, 07:44 PM
Start makin a move.

I'm rarely so blunt but, it seems ya fancy the feck outa each other lol.

If he's acting like that, loves talkin to ya, flirts, glancin at u all the time and even meetin eyes now an then well, he wants ya.

You can either do it by just tellin him straight out, hint at it when flirting, get closer by goin over to each others house to study, walking each other home after games and so on, or get really closer by going to the cinema or a day out sumwhere.

Either way all ya gotta do is start makin that move so ya can draw closer together, with how it seems at least you wont havto worry so much about one not liking the other.

GotToHaveNeo
February 13th '06, 09:43 PM
Here Here!!

bballbabigrl
February 13th '06, 09:55 PM
which means

Bob!
February 13th '06, 10:16 PM
She agrees I think lol.

Edit: Corrected, sorry I thought you were male cause of the name :P

GotToHaveNeo
February 14th '06, 04:03 AM
actually it means SHE agrees, sorry i should have been more specific

bballbabigrl
February 15th '06, 09:10 PM
is it wrong that the guy I like is so sexy?

its like I really like him and sometimes I think he likes me 2. whaen eva I get around him I start gettin happy or what eva. We are both not really shy people, but whaen we get around 1 another, we are. Like 2 day I told him that he looks nice (he does everyday) cuz he dressed up and he just looked so fine. We a friends and sometimes I think he knows that I like him. I call him on the phone sometimes and we talk for awhile.One day after class, I asked him 4 his phone # and he wrote it on my hand. sometimes he'll hold my books 4 me and we'll joke around. He is so CUTE . OMG! he has the nicest smile:) . like at school for valentines:i heart u da, I sent him a candy gram(I sent all my friends one) it said from a friend and I wrote guess who, but didn't sign my name. I don't know what to do, because I really like him and dont wanna mess things up. we have alot in common and have fun together.
He has a lot of friends, so sometimes when I see him around around other girls and the way he acts, I start to ask myself questions(does he like me? Is he just being nice? How can I get 2 know him better? and sometimes start to have doubts). I guess I am just really into him. Like in class, I'll write poems about him or for him, but then throw them away cuz I don't want them 2 get in the wrong hands. I dont know if my friends know that I like him, cuz I haven't told them. 2day we had to vote for stuff for tyhe year book and for prettiest smile, I wrote down his name. My friend was like "really, you think he has a pretty smile? he is always smiling so that's something I love about him" I love everything about him his laugh, his smile, everything. In class sometimes I'll catch him looking at me , and sometimes I look at him and just smile. He is so cUTE. Then, Ive noticed that everyday he leaves class at like the same time. I wonder if he is going to meet a g irl in the hall or something. (it's not like I stalk him. We are in the same class.) When I walk by him , he will look uyp an our eyes will connect and I just keep walking a smile faintly. What SHOULD I DO? PLEAZ HELP

GotToHaveNeo
February 16th '06, 07:23 AM
Ask him out, i like the direct approach, if he says no then you wont have to stress about it anymore, and if he says yes then, GO YOU

Loneaway018
February 16th '06, 01:03 PM
I believe that if you ask him out and he doesnt ask you..its that he just likes you as a friend (probably with benefits..)