Hurt/Upset/Being Ignored/Dont know what to do

[xxrachxx]

right.... yes long time no read.. not had any posts from me for abit...

im in a relationship, and its gunna be 6 week on saturday whoop lol BUT

on saturday i had a few threatenin phone calls, saying they were going to beat my boyfriend up for no reason.... but they are now sorted
but i know that the phone calls really pissed him off, but since saturday its been 5 days and hes been ignorin my texts and phone calls, so these past 2 days iv not text him or anythin

on Valentines day, id had enough of bein ignored for no reason, so i went down to his area, i found him out with his mates, i pulled him aside and asked what was up? he sed nowt, i just need a few days t think.. i said think about what? he just said things, i sed you gunna end it? he said i dnt kno, thats what i need t think about, so i said fine and walked off in tears....

he still hasnt spoke t me, hes still ignorin me, my friend askd im how we was, and he said kinda ok, but i know iv done nothin wrong for him to ignore me, but anythin i do and he wont talk to me, he ignores me with texts, phone calls and on msn

but whats pissed me off is that hes taking it too far now and the fact that bout 3 week ago, i found 2 pics of another lass on his phone from november what hed forgot t delete (and they werent of her face, jsut her body) so i confronted him on them n thats now sorted, but i forgave him so easily.. and iv done nothin wrong and hes ignored me for 5 days, what the FRIG DO I DO?!!?!??

[Shane]

Hope the advice I gave you over msn helped.

It is hard to tell whats going on with him but I hope you figure something out.
Hate to see you getting hurt Rach.

[Bob!]

Basically Rach it sounds you've done fuck all wrong.
You've even made an effort and tried to sort things so non o this is your fault at all.

So yeah you've made the effort and done all you can, just gotta wait to see if he'll do the same.

If he does end it with ya, then he'd be an entire nob-end tbh as you've done nothin to deserve it. If he does not then hes still got a lot of makin up to do.

[xxrachxx]

a hell of a lot of making up, if he comes on msn tonight, im just gunna ge everythin offen mi chest, i texted im at 9, and hes not texted back... i'l keep you updated

[Pearson]

a hell of a lot of making up, if he comes on msn tonight, im just gunna ge everythin offen mi chest, i texted im at 9, and hes not texted back... i'l keep you updated

I saw you on valentines day walking about 2pm! this might have been when you walking to him. I was driving a car!

[~Wayne~]

Sounds screwed up to me, no need to ignore someone for that long without some sort of a valid reason, if you do talk to him tell him what you think. I'm sure if he realises what he done he'll come to some sense and explain why he being a twat!

[Sponge'K'nob]

he sounds like a complete nob ed rach, has he spoke to you yet? Maybe if he hasnt spoke to ya jus i dunno make him listen to you and let it all out if u havnt already!
could the reason about why he not talkin to ya have anything to do with the phone calls? maybe theyve said something to him?
hope it gets sorted anyway..

[xxrachxx]

they didnt speak to him, they only person they spoke to was me, and his mum when she was arguin with them

[danni4kevin]

dnt worrie so much about it. ppl r so raw dis days dey need 2 act der age not der shoe size man.

[xxrachxx]

ryt well, somebody actually got through to him!!
hes got alot of problems goin on, and hes realised that not seein/speakin to me for 8 days is bad, but he sed he needs a bit of space, cos hes got alot of serious stuff goin on (and i know how bad he has erm incidents) and that hes gunna tell me by weds whats happenin, he knows my feelins as she told him...... but he needs to get these problems outta way... so i shall update you on wednesday... she showed me the convo lol

[xxrachxx]

broke up ...

[Sponge'K'nob]

aww...what happened?

[xxrachxx]

right him calm, i can now write about it lol
his exact words.....
i fink itd b best if we jst ended it cus i dnt wana hurt u anymore than wot i already av. i still love u 2 bits n u havent done anyfing wrong so theres no need 2 fink that ill always b here for u n i jst hope in the future we still talk n that we still close i jst want u 2 kno that i love u 2 bits n i proberly will do for eva xsorryx

i am heartbroke lol... his msn name STILL says that he (L)'s me, he hasnt changed that.... and he was talkin to one of my mates yest and she upset him.....
MY MATE- why did u split anyway? if u loved er so much shes propa heartbroke herself ya was a r8 couple anal, ya cuda sorted evrythin out or gone on a break
HIM- i jst fort it was for the best even tho i do still lover er to bits i jst dint want t see her get hurt
MY MATE- wud u eva get bk wit er or owt?
HIM- hopefully in the future but i dnt fink she wud
MY MATE- wot u mean u dnt wanna hurt her? wot with? u hidin summert?
HIM- just not bein abel t see er alot n dat cos of work n mi family life
MY MATE- bring them old days bk wen u use t say u wantd her for ever n neva wanna lose er an shit u remember? she propa wants u back shes reyt upset ya no man
HIM- ye :(
MY MATE- she was always there for u, last sunday at work she was heartbroke with ya not tlkin 2 her all week..... i sed t her that knowin u how long i do ud never ever hurt her, i no u dnt mean to but u have big tym
MY MATE- i ant got u upset ash av i sayin all this?
HIM- its ok
MY MATE- aww sorry u alright?
HIM- i'l be fine :(

then he went offline :s

[Shane]

I just don't see why he had to finish it really. He could have seen you at least a few times a week or at least rang you!

I think you should demand a full explanation, its the least you deserve!