Need some help.

[adam_smith]

Okay guys i might not be able to get my point across right now cos im so confused.
ok here goes i have three girls who i love to pieces but the thing is im not sure which one is right for me, ok first theres donna a mondo sweet girl i have been best friends with her for about 3 years and we have become so close its unbeliveable anyway teh other day she finally confessed to likeing me in secondry school (As did i at the same time) but the reason we didnt date is everybody else in our classes as we were often targets for comments, so long and short of girl 1 is tht were in love i guess but were not a couple. next is alicia this is diffrent after only meeting once through a freind waiting to take my RE GCSE paper and we hit it off quite well and we exchanged addys and spoke to each other all through the summer, well friday we finally decided to hang out, so we hung out at our local shopping centre where we just had a laugh, well after i returned home and got on msn to talk to her then she told me she liked me but the only problem is she already has a boyfreind and was now doubting asking him to be hers from what i a gather. ok teh 3rd girl is a colleage (sp) of mine at ASDA we started at the same time adn had the same shifts all summer long, i like her because she is kinda all i look for in a girl brains and beauty but theres one small problems she goes to boarding school somewhere in ipswich and i only get to see her during hoildays (so basically every six weeks) but as i said she is just a great girl.
so basically i have 2 girls who i know like me and one i have no clue about (hence the confusion) any help would be great (sorry its long)
(i like brakets lol)

[nyx]

(I lol'd at the I like brackets)

Right. I have one question before I give my answer.

Girl one, you were in love (past tense), or you are in love (present tense)?

[adam_smith]

mmm im not quite sure

[nyx]

Ahh, ok. Well if you were sure then the answer seems obvious to me. You'd just give it ago, you know she likes you and your friends anyway so you know each other well etc.

I'd avoid girl two if I was you. The fact she has a boyfriend will just make everything difficult. And tbh it'll probbly end in tears, either she won't leave her bf or she will then not want to be with you straightaway, or whatever. I don't think you should go for that.

And the third one well, long distance relationships can work, they just take effort it depends on the individuals involved. And you don't know she likes you either.

Really you need to decide whether you like girl number one or not, if so, get in there! It sounds perfect. Avoid number 2. And think about how dedicated you could be to number 3.

I hope that helped in some way.

[adam_smith]

thanks you have been most helpful

[nyx]

No problem :)

[Sweetest.x.Sin]

Why not go with your best friend? Who cares what other people say about it.
The third girl is in boarding School so you may hardly ever see her, the second you don't know so well, but your best friend is someone you are very close with so since you've been friends so long the friendship will still be there and it'll help make your relationship work out for the best since you know each other well.
But follow your heart and do what you think you should do.

[adam_smith]

thanks i will do

[Sweetest.x.Sin]

No need to thank.
Anytime you need help. :)

[adam_smith]

well we tried and sadly failed
pfft two weeks now how is that long enough to decide that we were right together
well least where still freinds
and there's plenty more fish in the sea

[nyx]

Aww man that sucks.

Have you told her you don't think two weeks was long enough to know for sure? I imagine going from best friends to more can be a tough transfer, IDK. But yeh least you're still friends.

[adam_smith]

its not worth it serously we have pretty much argued for the past two weeks,i just thikn she is kinda scared of commitement tbh the last good relastionship she has was a kinda long distance relationship and aprrantly he did things to her, i never found out what them things are and the only reason that lasted so long is she didnt really have to put much effort into it just a few hours of msn maybe my mum was right i deserve much better