Can we call it love?

[endless_hope]

Well i have a story, it might sound silly to many people reading this...But love happens in various occasions lmao..
Have u ever had this experience with a guy/gal who u meet throught some sites could be myspace/facebook/hi5 etc and have some connection with..They understand u and slowly become ur soulmates.. They seem to understand u rather than judge u...
Its easier to tell stranger's ur story and anything u feel like..and they make u feel good about ur self...Eventually that connection with them just turn to some sort of love..and wheneva u see them online u just got soo excited that u get cherry's in ur eyes ^_^..Eventually u realise they live oversea and u can barely see them in real life.
What am tryna say is love through online is it healthy??

Thx for the help.

[Wacko1574]

DEAR GOD!! i had this experience......just started as a random guy on msn....then slowly we began to connect and have many things in common.....and we are in love :o

and what i think of it, its a two way situation healthy as in come on your in love and you found someone to love you for who you are and understands you even more than your family and bestfrnds will ever, and unhealthy cuz you may never know if he/she was for real or not...and you will always keep wondering....if you were the only one or its jst one big way to hav fun :(

[endless_hope]

DEAR GOD!! i had this experience......just started as a random guy on msn....then slowly we began to connect and have many things in common.....and we are in love :o

and what i think of it, its a two way situation healthy as in come on your in love and you found someone to love you for who you are and understands you even more than your family and bestfrnds will ever, and unhealthy cuz you may never know if he/she was for real or not...and you will always keep wondering....if you were the only one or its jst one big way to hav fun :(

Whoooaa thats how i feel deep down me.. r u my soul mate hehehehe...
Well who ever said love is pain was dammn rite lmao

[Leon]

I've kinda had that with a couple of people before where you find someone on the net that has all the same interests as you and you can just instantly talk to them for hours like the first time you talk to them as you easily get on. Although before I've sometimes had a few feelings start to grow for them only to be shot down when I find out either they don't see it like that or they then ask me about a guy they like or something because they've got on with me so well they start to confide in me about who they like.

So now I hardly get feelings or anything for anyone that I only talk to via the net as I know it can easily just be found utterly pointless, I prefer meeting people in person anyway, although a combination of meeting them on the net, talking for a while then meeting them, there's nothing wrong with that at all, as long as they're genuinely like how they are on the net to you, as sometimes you may find that they can be completely different people in person to how they are on the net.

I know couples that have met on the net and maintained a strong relationship then dated and fallen in love, although I'm not sure that any of them are 100% on the net, where they have actually met up.

[Wacko1574]

Whoooaa thats how i feel deep down me.. r u my soul mate hehehehe...
Well who ever said love is pain was dammn rite lmao

hehehehe maybe ;)...lol....it is a pain......although i want to keep it strictly to frndship....sometimes you jst find love in the weirdest unexpected places....even if it was the internet :)


Although before I've sometimes had a few feelings start to grow for them only to be shot down when I find out either they don't see it like that or they then ask me about a guy they like or something because they've got on with me so well they start to confide in me about who they like. i am srry abt that leon :(...u know what good for you to have known sooner....and i agree its better to meet ppl in person.....although sometimes....i jst cant help but get my damn feeling to get involved :(

[Sweetest.x.Sin]

I've felt a connection with quite a few people online, we see each other's pictures, we confess that we feel strongly for each other, but they all live quite a ways away or are slowly gaining into another relationship so it's all good.
The others who live in my city, I've only had about one date with and I don't really talk to them as much anymore so whatever, shit happens just forget about it.
With boyfriends though, I've never actually loved them.

[Leon]

I've only had about one dateOne or about one?

[nyx]

Its a funny thing the internet. And meeting people on it. I understand that someone can have feelings for comeone they 'know' online, but to me to have a relationship purely online makes NO sense. People are always slightly different online, if only because normally they have more confidence. So I don't think you really know a person before you meet them. And a relationship surely has to have some amount of physical contact at some point? Or is that just me.

Now if you have feelings for someone online and meet up, thats pretty normal. Just like meeting someone somewhere else.

Its easy to get attached to people online cos theres often a huge amount of honesty there, and its based purely on conversation not other things that get involved in real life, but I still don't think you can properly love someone you haven't met. But hey maybe I'm being narrow minded.

[Leon]

I agree completely Clare.

[dontletthisdie]

I uh, am the master of online love. Hahaha.

Idk i've had alot of these experiences that started on myspace. I've fallen for some girls, but mostly it was just random fun so I won't get bored when I'm online.

I have no gotten into any relationships though, that is just pure weirdness... Altough I have agreed to meet with a few of them and that turned out really good. Haha.

But I guess it's healthy if you just have fun with it, and not take it that seriously.. After all it's online. Don't fall too hard though, it's gonna kill you when they get into a real relationship.

[Wacko1574]

But I guess it's healthy if you just have fun with it, and not take it that seriously.. After all it's online. Don't fall too hard though, it's gonna kill you when they get into a real relationship.
AGREE^^ one reason i dnt get too attached and involved.....even though we met only once *the guy i chat with*

[endless_hope]

Its a funny thing the internet. And meeting people on it. I understand that someone can have feelings for comeone they 'know' online, but to me to have a relationship purely online makes NO sense. People are always slightly different online, if only because normally they have more confidence. So I don't think you really know a person before you meet them. And a relationship surely has to have some amount of physical contact at some point? Or is that just me.

Now if you have feelings for someone online and meet up, thats pretty normal. Just like meeting someone somewhere else.

Its easy to get attached to people online cos theres often a huge amount of honesty there, and its based purely on conversation not other things that get involved in real life, but I still don't think you can properly love someone you haven't met. But hey maybe I'm being narrow minded.


Whooaa thats soo true when u meet a person via internet.. u r not so urself, maybe in reality u lack confidence and being behind the screen can hide that... and things r just smooth and Idyllic and u barely see or notice their flaws...
Man to be honest all love is a continuous distress and drama..There is no day that passes by with out some drama..I'm serious.. Lmaoo :p

[Wacko1574]

Man to be honest all love is a continuous distress and drama..There is no day that passes by with out some drama..I'm serious.. Lmaoo :p

hahahaha hear ya there!! :P.....dnt think a word love wold even exist if not for all the drama....which is kinda cool.....and sad too

[endless_hope]

hahahaha hear ya there!! :P.....dnt think a word love wold even exist if not for all the drama....which is kinda cool.....and sad too

Oh well i see wat u mean..Well its fun to watch two couples getting in beef and they making a scene out of it.. but u shud be in the quarrel.. i guess
I prefer being in the back acting like am in the movies while the couples go on and on about their problems (Opps that sounds harsh looolz) :chill:

[Wacko1574]

Oh well i see wat u mean..Well its fun to watch two couples getting in beef and they making a scene out of it.. but u shud be in the quarrel.. i guess
I prefer being in the back acting like am in the movies while the couples go on and on about their problems (Opps that sounds harsh looolz) :chill:
hahaha......come on if couples dnt quarrel i wouldnt call them an open to each other couple....jst shows more love in the air.....yeah yeah i am jst too hopeful in the world :o......lolz abt the movies.....kinda enjoy that too:P......and yeah it is harsh....once i thin i was in the mall sitting in the bench ...and a couple infront of me were quarelling....i was staring like anything....haha....then she looked at him when he looked away then she looked away and he looked at her....it did seem like a movie...think the broke up...she was crying......CRAP!! i know i know its non of my business to make a whole story up but HEY! its fun :D *hope they got back together :O*

[Elliott200]

i've fallen for people over the internet more than twice lol, mostly Swedish women :S but i'm trying to find someone special more local now. my advice is dont get too involved with someone online because the outcome will more than likely be you getting hurt, dont get me wrong some people do actually decide to meet up and it works out, but more often that not it doesn't :D

[endless_hope]

i've fallen for people over the internet more than twice lol, mostly Swedish women :S but i'm trying to find someone special more local now. my advice is dont get too involved with someone online because the outcome will more than likely be you getting hurt, dont get me wrong some people do actually decide to meet up and it works out, but more often that not it doesn't :D
loolz u cracked me up.. but yeah there is something true in their

[Elliott200]

aws no need to take the mick :( remember it's you who's fallen for someone now lol :D

[Leon]

mostly Swedish women :SLol, they are quite the lookers thought aren't they :D

[Elliott200]

Oooh! dont get me started on their looks lol, and their sexy accents, no Swedish women for me unless i go there ofc :P

[Wacko1574]

^^loool ......:P