meh
November 18th '07, 11:19 PM
So I've known this girl for a while now, and were the closest of friends. She has told me multiple times that I'm pretty much the only guy she respects when it comes to opinion. We talk everyday and sometimes late at night till four in the morning.
Four-ish months ago she got out of a tough relationship and a couple of months later so did her best friend. Ever since then they decided to stay single and only fool around for the rest of the year.
Well her best friend is pretty much going out with someone now, and just wont say it cause of the agreement to stay single. I can tell my friend is concerned about her friend cause shes with the same kind of jerk she always falls in love with. (pretentious pretty boy jocks who pamper a whole bunch of girls at once to get in there pants, and keeps them secret from each other). But my friend is definitely jealous of her finding one guy to be with.
Now a couple of weeks ago I told my friend that I liked her even though I know she doesn't feel the same way. It didn't make anything weird between us. Lately shes been saying things that show that shes starting to like me, but I think she doesn't realize it because she is used to me being the "best friend" but thats all. Of course this may just be me being a hopeless romantic.
And now I come to you, great anonymous internet, for advice on what I should do to to help her find what she wants, even if it really isn't me.
Four-ish months ago she got out of a tough relationship and a couple of months later so did her best friend. Ever since then they decided to stay single and only fool around for the rest of the year.
Well her best friend is pretty much going out with someone now, and just wont say it cause of the agreement to stay single. I can tell my friend is concerned about her friend cause shes with the same kind of jerk she always falls in love with. (pretentious pretty boy jocks who pamper a whole bunch of girls at once to get in there pants, and keeps them secret from each other). But my friend is definitely jealous of her finding one guy to be with.
Now a couple of weeks ago I told my friend that I liked her even though I know she doesn't feel the same way. It didn't make anything weird between us. Lately shes been saying things that show that shes starting to like me, but I think she doesn't realize it because she is used to me being the "best friend" but thats all. Of course this may just be me being a hopeless romantic.
And now I come to you, great anonymous internet, for advice on what I should do to to help her find what she wants, even if it really isn't me.