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maxfender
February 21st '06, 12:39 AM
ok.
well i like this guy a LOT.
and last friday i wrote him a note and had my friend give it to him because i had already had the only class i have with him.
So in the note i told him that i like him and i just wanted to get that off my chest.

So when i got home my friend told me this online:
"at lunch today jake was talking to me and anny and he said "hey guys i have a question. emma told me she likes me and idk if i should go out with her or not." and me and anny were like OMIGOSH GO OUT WITH HERRRR! and then casey was like but if you dont like her then dont, cause that would suck for her. and he goes well, i do."


Well he called me that night but i wasnt home and i didnt get home uintil late.
So he called back Saturday and he asked me out. and i of course, said yes.

BUT then, on monday, he calls me and tells me he wants to get to know me better before we get involved in a relationship and he invited me to go to a movie with him tuesday(Valentine's day).

well i couldnt go because i had trumpet lessons when he was going to go. so i told him maybe this saturday and he said ok but now he thinks he might have practice.


So i talked to him on Valentines day on the phone and this was the convo thing:
"i just think i rushed into it because i hadnt had a g/f in a long time and i like to get to know people first before we go out" and i was like yeah i understand. and i was like so do you think we could ever go out again and he was like deffinatly. and i was like ok. and then i asked him if he even liked me like that and he said maybe not entirely right now, but maybe in a little while(once he gets to know me more). and so he still asked me to go to his church with him and all and then i was like well maybe saturday we could hang out or something

Yesterday neither one of us talked to eachother in class and today i asked him if i could call him and when i could, so i probably will tonight.

But im starting to think im annoying him or he is trying to avoid me. But, if either of those were true, why would he ever even ask me out?

im so confused.
can anyone please tell me what all of this means; what he is really thinking, if he still likes me, etc.
PLEASE.
I like him SO much.:ninja*:

zmgharrypotter
February 21st '06, 12:57 AM
Hmm.
I don't think he's getting annoyed of you.
There's a lot of things that go on after school and on weekends and stuff, so him being busy really isn't too suspicious.
He seems like a nice guy that actually wants to get to know you.
Give it time, there will be an opening in both of your schedules at the same time eventually!

maxfender
February 21st '06, 01:00 AM
yeah.
i really like him and i want to get to know him better also.
do you have any ideas to what we could do together?
Maybe something that would allow both of us to see one anothers real personality?

zmgharrypotter
February 21st '06, 05:57 AM
Hmm.
Anything that would be fun for the both of you.
Something where you could be by yourselves, but it wouldn't be uncomfortable.
Heh. this would be sorta lame, but it might work. If you both studied together? Or worked on a some project together, maybe. Unless you're in different classes.
Basically anything you could both relate on, but wouldn't necessarily have to be talking all the time would be good.

Sponge'K'nob
February 21st '06, 03:23 PM
this guy sounds like he likes yew.
you can understand him wanting to get to know you, i mean if your wantin a relationship n stuff. Just keep talkin to him and stuff and go some place with him,or a walk or something....either one of you have a dog? lmao i no that sounds lame, but it works. try it out

maxfender
February 21st '06, 07:25 PM
i have a dog. im not sure if he does, but i was going to ask him because i always bring my dogs down to the nearest park...so that was an idea

oops yeah that was me